godlives’ "Sex, Polygamy . . ." post

Yes, buried in the poorly worded paragraphs are some pretty dang good questions.

But I’m with Ray, it’s way way too much to tackle in one thread, and it’s a bit explicit and unfocused. Feels more like rambling. I feel like I have to try and interpret the real question because he’s not being clear. I’m also not keen on the speculation about JS and BY sex lives mostly because I don’t think it matters.

I propose that we acknowledge the questions and want to discuss them with him but we need to take one thing at a time. Ask him if he wouldn’t mind breaking it up into at least 5 different posts (for his 5 questions).

Ditto.

Eu, I like the Av!

I agree that it is a little on the edge with so much sex talk. This person has some real personal issues to deal with regarding his sexuality in relation to spirituality and religion.

I say throw the post out there as is. I think there are good questions. I think some of his observations are a little immature, but we the merits slightly outweigh the problems. They came across to me as someone who really would like some help and mentoring.

I think we should quickly steer the conversation and refocus away from so many details about sex. We aren’t here to tell someone what is right and wrong about it anyways. They have to decide.

What say ye?

This might be unconventional. I am going to edit his post a little, just the sex part. Then I will move it back.

I think he is asking good questions, just a little too much openness on the sex paragraph. I’ll send a note to him.

Thanks!