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    I appreciate the comments on the previous posts. Being back in Utah has brought back a lot of thoughts about my growing up in the church, my mission, my temple marriage, and the culture here. Well, I’ve found myself asking the question, “Do I really want to be in the Celestial Kingdom?” The reason I thought about it is that both my parents and brother have brought this up on several occasions as their motivation to live the gospel (good and bad). I started thinking to myself about going to the highest kingdom. The problem is I don’t really know why that matters. I mean I want to be a good person and help others. Christ spent his time on earth with the poorest born in humble circumstances not in classy hotels and visitor centers. The truth is, I don’t want to go to the highest kingdom, nor do I want to be a God. I don’t think that motivates me any more at all. I do however want to be honest, fair, understanding, and just a little bit better everyday. I want to help those that hurt. I want to feed the poor and aid the sick. This lead me to the question, why do we excommunicate? How is it possible for the church to take away Christ’s ability go give us salvation? If the church isn’t 100% true doesn’t that question keys to the priesthood? Authority in the priesthood is everything to the church. I guess I’m still not getting it: “buffet mormon, commandments, etc.”

    Don’t get me wrong, I want to be with my love ones after this life, but I could do without the judgments other then from “God.” I am finding that Heaven is now something that the church can’t guarantee or take away from me. It’s my relationship with God. So now what?…

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    Hi godlives, I can really identify with your struggle on the celestial kingdom. I think it is perhaps the single doctrine that the Evangelicals find the most offensive since they are so focused on grace and the idea that a person can do absolutely nothing that will make any difference it is all up to God. We need to come down somewhere in the middle but focusing on “getting to the celestial kingdom” it seems to me is one of the better ways to not get there. What we have to focus on is being as honest and loving with everyone around us and be thankful for the grace that Christ brought into the world which makes all of heaven possible.

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    This lead me to the question, why do we excommunicate? How is it possible for the church to take away Christ’s ability go give us salvation? If the church isn’t 100% true doesn’t that question keys to the priesthood?

    I thought I would at least try to handle these two issues at least a bit.

    1. Excommunication: ideally the Church uses excommunication as a last resort and in a loving way. I guess there are a few members who are inherently evil and that we simply have to get out of the community in order to have a good safe place to live the gospel. However in most cases the idea is that excommunication is an act of love (most cases or at least in the ideal case) a way of saying, “the way you are going is wrong, seriously wrong and it has consequences, now recognize the sin and work your way back to fellowship”. I have seen this work out several times in my own ward where after an initial period of anger the person returns to meetings and over the next few years slowly develops a new faith and is finally baptized again. However I don’t think that anyone involved ever thought that the excommunication ever “took away ” their possibility of Christ’s salvation, it was just a reminder that their current behavior/position was too extreme for the community.

    Not a completly satisfying answer I know. For what it is worth in our area there was a time when we would have automatically excommunicated a member who was part of a “common law” marriage. Now we keep them active and supported and encourage them to get married and most do but then we are out in the “mission field” (central BC in this case) and this most often happens in a conversion situation where someone has just joined the church on their own without the rest of their family and clearly then excommunicating them because they were living common law simply wouldn’t make sense.

    2. Priesthood and 100%.

    The reason that we do have the priesthood and ongoing revelation is that ANY human insititution, any human being is going to make mistakes and is not going to be 100% perfect, it just can’t be done, so we need to have a contact with Heavenly Father that gives us the ability to connect with him and get active direction from Him. Joseph Smith certainly never said he was perfect and in fact the D&C records several quite severe scoldings that he got, our problem as a Church is that we too often want to make him more perfect than he was.

    The Church doesn’t need to be 100% right to be on the right track, but it is always important to distinguish between the gospel as Christ intends it and the messages that a “culture” sends out and it would seem that the overall culture of Utah Mormonism is still just a bit to “self satisfied” and in danger of leading itself “carefully down to Hell”.

    Enough of this , keep up the struggle, thanks for bringing this up.

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    It seems to me that the judgments of others come from lots of angles and sources. Just when you think you have postured yourself away from one set of judgments, another seems to find a way in.

    I think the trick is learning autonomy and the love that is need to maintain it…..the love the goes is directed both in and outside of a person.

    If we can be on our path AND be right with God while we are on the path, then the judgments of others matter very little. And we can let go needing them or being influenced or bugged by them.

    I don’t know why we have this judginess problem in the church. I am perhaps guilty of it too. And I don’t think we were the first to struggle with it. I think the NT with all the divisions amongst the Jews shows that they struggled with similar things too. But it seems more and more that my devotion has to be a singular thing outside the influences of earth forces. What God thinks needs to be my focus as I work together with Him to adjust my course. I am realizing that I can’t always trust even my own evaluations of things as my fears and resentments and pains color things. It seems I have to rise above myself as well.

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    godlives wrote:

    The truth is, I don’t want to go to the highest kingdom, nor do I want to be a God. I don’t think that motivates me any more at all. I do however want to be honest, fair, understanding, and just a little bit better everyday. I want to help those that hurt. I want to feed the poor and aid the sick.

    Some of the best leaders in the world, the ones that made positive impacts on humanity, are often the ones that didn’t really want the job. Sometimes the people that lust for the leadership positions, and want them the most, are often the worst at them. They want them for the wrong reasons.

    Maybe the best “gods” are made like that too. ;) Maybe the celestial kingdom is full of people that focused on being happy and making the world a better place, and not so much full of people who focused their whole life on getting the biggest “mansion” in the best kingdom.

    Wherever the compassionate and enlightened people go in the afterlife, can I have a small little shack there? That would be heaven. Like attracts like, or so I hope and pray.

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    This lead me to the question, why do we excommunicate? How is it possible for the church to take away Christ’s ability go give us salvation?

    The Church excommunicates people to distance themselves and separate out people who are (perceived) threats. Trust me. I don’t think a Bishop or Stake President overrides Jesus Christ. When I get to the off-track betting window, my money is going on JC in that race.

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    Besides. The excommunication decisions of the temporary executive officers in the Church must be approved in a bi-weekly meeting during the millennium, in the case of purely internal affairs, and by a two-thirds majority in the case of unorthodoxy or lack of faith, but an otherwise good life lived. The whole thing can be overridden by JC, who is our King, who wields Excaliber (a flaming sword), signifying his authority … and his ability to lay down THE LAW … and cut down stupid annoying people … in his mercy.

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    If it helps any “Being a God” and “Highest Kingdom” don’t motivate me either. Being with my husband forever does and seeing the people I love – Meeting God and Jesus and being able to “Learn” from them would be cool too .. And that is pretty much all I care about at the moment – Even with that I’m not too worried about “Heaven” or what it might be like. I’m begining to think “Heaven” is way to complicated in our Church and I can’t say I agree or even like half of the things they say about it – I even hope (and believe) some of the Churches thoughts on it are wrong, which they definately could be but I won’t knock it 100%.

    Doing “Good Things” with an agenda, like hoping to recieve admittance into the CK for example ..Well to me it just doesn’t seem so good anymore-So is it really about authentic love and charity or is all about self? I Guess there needs to be a balance. When it comes down to it .. God might say sorry you didn’t care about yourself enough and others too much.. OR..Sorry you cared too much about yourself and not others? It all depends on the individual and the situation but it is just like anyone else doing good things for the wrong reason .. So if that makes sense “CK” or “Becoming a God” could definately be a “Wrong reason” for doing good, unless you want it and want to learn and grow and reach it in the right way. My personal definition of Right Way .. would simply be doing “Good” without a pesky agenda hanging around … And a heep of selflessness with a little self here and there to find personal happiness rightfully deserved that God certainly wants us to have etc. .. I guess. :) I think there is a difference between goals and an agenda. Unfortunately I think they get all messy and misused from time to time

    Now what? I’m trying to figure that out too .. I think it is going to start with being true to my own conscience.

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