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    I had an interesting experience. One I’m sure many of you have had. But I wanted to share it with you. At first my husband was so kind to listen and read with me almost everything I had learned about the history of the church. But then he told me he just couldn’t do it anymore. I totally understood that. I admit I would get so mad sometimes, I would question everything he believed in. So lately, I haven’t talked to him about anything because I didn’t want to hurt him or his testimony. But, I have noticed a distancing with him that has been bothering me. So this morning we talked about it. We were able to talk about our feelings in a non-threatening way and we felt closer. We decided when one of us feels threatened at all by what the other is saying we need to mention it. For example, off limits is saying something like, “I can’t believe you think this is true, can’t you see that I am right”?? We were both open to what the other was saying, and it worked! I am so excited!

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    That is truly cool and exemplary. Thanks for the inspiring message.

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    That is a real form of love and connection. What a nice break through.

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    Cool. I’m glad to hear that.

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    I think there is great potential in sharing our deepest feelings in an intimate, honest, sincere and open way. At least, that’s been my experience as well. Way to go, peaceandjoy!!

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