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    Last evening I attended the Great Vigil of Easter service at a local small episcopal church and during the service there’s a renewal of the baptismal covenant. The priest asks if we believe in God, Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit, and if we promise to live according to the commandments. After each question the response is, “I will with God’s help”, and with each question and response I got the shivers right down to my toes. I’ve spent a good share of the last 25 years mistrusting any sensation, feeling or emotion associated with religion but I have to tell you it was quite remarkable. I don’t know if it was just neurochemicals or the Spirit trying to give me one more chance but I left that little church feeling really different. It’s made for a different Easter for me than usual and I hope it stays with me.

    #242969
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    GBSmith — when I was a full-time missionary, and afterwards, I have been told repeatedly that I have a gift of teaching with the Spirit. I have discovered there are a number of attitudes that tend to create that spiritual atmosphere which touches the spiritual emotions.

    You have touched on three of them in this simple exercise you experienced. The first is expressions of humility toward God with the “with God’s help” component of their recitation. One of the most powerful ways of bringing the Spirit into a meeting, for me, was to verbalize phrases from a prayer of humility that affirm that God is in control, and that I am dependent on him. Consistently, this would bring tears to the eyes of the people in the meeting, particularly when training teachers and missionaries. It was highly predictable.

    Second are statements of belief, which was also present here. The words “I Believe” carries a power that tends to transmit to other people in the room — particularly when these beliefs are regarding belief in the power of God, the ability of the human spirit to triumph over adversity, or the hope of a better world. I think the minister harnessed this principle in his exercise.

    Third are expressions of sacrifice. When you speak in front of a crowd and describe the sacrifices that people have made for a higher purpose, this also tends to create spiritual emotion. I think there was an element of this when the congregation expressed their commitment to believe in God.

    And I’m glad you brought this up because it has raised a couple insights. I actually COULDN’T REMEMBER the techniques I used to apply when teaching the gospel when I read your post. I knew that I had that gift of teaching at one time, but had completely forgotten how I used to apply it until I sat down and thought long and hard to retrieve my ideas. Perhaps I’ve lost that gift through inward less-activity? Thanks for the insight by your posting here. I think I need to review how I used to apply that gift years ago so I don’t forget how I used to do it!!!

    Second, the exercise that you present here sounds very much like the kind of audience participation we see in other sacred places in the Church. However, I have never felt that spiritual emotion attached to it there — perhaps because it’s scripted. Not sure what this means, but I see a parallel between your experience in the protestant Church service you describe and LDS experiences in highly sacred buildings.

    #242970
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    Yeah, GB, I was just talking about this. jwald and I did the whole Seder thing Friday (passover) with just our family, and this morning we went to the local Easter Sunrise Service at Fort Rock, where all the churches (except for the mormons :( ) in the community gather at 6 AM and do a Easter ceremony as the sun rises over the cliffs and rocks. ANYWAY – I felt the spirit all weekend. It was wonderful! Beautiful! Wonderful music. Wonderful messages. And I really really miss it from my church and wish that I could get it there. Why are we not doing this kind of stuff in our church? We are so boring and dull.

    I think many people can and do really have those experiences in our church. I just don’t know, either I have evolved “past it” in our religion, OR I’m just a weak nonspiritual person who no longer has the humility to feel the spirit in my own church. Maybe I am the Jew in my own religion that can not see beyond the mark? I don’t know. It really seems to me like the church with all of it’s gazillion rules and cultural traditions and commandments, and all the focus on temple recommends and prophets and obedience and such, are so much of a distraction that I can’t focus on what is really important and great about the gospel anymore.

    I’m actually a very very philosophical and spiritual person – and I am just not finding it – I’m just bored silly and frustrated to death at church.

    I know I know — we all are responsible for our spiritual growth at church and in our services, and no one can do it for us. I just am unable to get it done right now because of the messages that i hear over and over again at church, and with all the cog-dis and frustration about the direction the church is on. I’m not going to blame the church for it, I’m sure that many of you find a great deal of meaning and satisfaction with the LDS church and “can find god” with this kind of religious worship – but I have to be honest with myself, the church is just not working for me at this time.

    I felt so good this weekend, that we decided to not attend church, because I don’t want to go and just come home feeling crappy again.

    I guess, with all this, what I am saying and why I posted it here under GB’s thread —- is I am having to go elsewhere to feel the spirit and find peace. I’m just not getting much out of the LDS church anymore, and it frustrates me that that is the case because I love the church and my family and would like to be able to have some place within the tribe.

    #242971
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    Yes, it was the Spirit – which, we are told, testifies of truth and right, no matter where it is found.

    We (all of us, LDS or not) tend to limit the Spirit far too much, I believe.

    #242972
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    Old-Timer wrote:

    Yes, it was the Spirit – which, we are told, testifies of truth and right, no matter where it is found.

    We (all of us, LDS or not) tend to limit the Spirit far too much, I believe.


    I totally agree with Ray. Just so.

    HiJolly

    #242973
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    I thought it might be interesting for you to read the full text. I appreciate the comments.

    Quote:


    The Renewal of Baptismal Vows

    Celebrant: Do you reaffirm your renunciation of evil and

    renew your commitment to Jesus Christ?

    People: I do.

    Celebrant: Do you believe in God the Father?

    People: I believe in God, the Father almighty,

    creator of heaven and earth.

    Celebrant: Do you believe in Jesus Christ, the Son of God?

    People: I believe in Jesus Christ, his only Son, our Lord.

    He was conceived by the power of the Holy Spirit

    and born of the Virgin Mary.

    He suffered under Pontius Pilate,

    was crucified, died, and was buried.

    He descended to the dead.

    On the third day he rose again.

    He ascended into heaven,

    and is seated at the right hand of the Father.

    He will come again to judge the living and the dead.

    Celebrant: Do you believe in God the Holy Spirit?

    People: I believe in the Holy Spirit,

    the holy catholic Church,

    the communion of saints,

    the forgiveness of sins,

    the resurrection of the body,

    and the life everlasting.

    Celebrant: Will you continue in the apostles’ teaching and

    fellowship, in the breaking of bread, and in the

    prayers?

    People: I will, with God’s help.

    Celebrant: Will you persevere in resisting evil, and, whenever

    you fall into sin, repent and return to the Lord?

    People: I will, with God’s help.

    Celebrant: Will you proclaim by word and example the Good

    News of God in Christ?

    People: I will, with God’s help.

    Celebrant: Will you seek and serve Christ in all persons, loving

    your neighbor as yourself?

    People: I will, with God’s help.

    Celebrant: Will you strive for justice and peace among all people,

    and respect the dignity of every human being?

    People: I will, with God’s help.

    May Almighty God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who

    has given us a new birth by water and the Holy Spirit, and

    bestowed upon us the forgiveness of sins, keep us in eternal

    life by his grace, in Christ Jesus our Lord. Amen.

    #242974
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    The Church acts like they own the idea of “the Spirit” and one of their companies has a technology they call “HeartSell” which looks like it is mostly about manipulating peoples’ emotions. Personally, I think there really is more to this than emotions in some cases but I disagree with the way Church members often try to interpret feelings like this as confirmation that the Church is everything it claims to be, the one and only true Church, etc. when followers of other churches often have similar or even stronger experiences as well.

    #242975
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    Thanks for sharing, GB. That sounds like a beautiful service and practice.

    On Thursday, I went to a noon hour Maundy Thursday service at a Lutheran Church. At one point, the pastor had all attendants approach the front area and kneel. the then went around, placing his hands on each head, saying, “By the commandment of Jesus Christ, I forgive you all your sins.” It was very different from what I’m used to as a lifelong Mormon, and as i watched it happen to several others I had mixed feelings. Then those words were uttered to me and I felt God’s love at that very moment.

    I understand our need to be unique and separate in many ways from other Christian traditions, but I think we’ve given up many beautiful and powerful rituals in the process.

    cwald wrote:

    It really seems to me like the church with all of it’s gazillion rules and cultural traditions and commandments, and all the focus on temple recommends and prophets and obedience and such, are so much of a distraction that I can’t focus on what is really important and great about the gospel anymore.

    This is how I feel, too.

    #242976
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    That sounds like a very sincere and affirming service, Andrew – but it is an example of a religious tradition I simply can’t accept personally (the feeling of love which accompanied it, notwithstanding). I understand and don’t question that someone with a repentant heart can feel the Spirit in that situation testifying of God’s love, but the practice itself is one I instinctively question – and I don’t like it after considering it. All of us have something about Mormon culture that bothers us, and this is something about that culture that bothers me.

    1) I don’t like the idea that a mortal can forgive sins someone commits against someone else. Someone who has not been harmed in a real way has no business, imo, saying they forgive someone. To me, that cheapens the real, often deep, pain sin can cause in the victim’s life. Forgiveness, I believe, carries with it the assumption of harm in some way – and only the harmed have the right to forgive.

    2) I don’t like the idea that someone who often has no idea what sins someone has committed can say, “I forgive your sins.” What if there was a congregant who was sexually abusing his children? What if there was someone who refused to pay child support? What if there was someone who was physically abusing his or her spouse? What if there was a habitual adulterer? What if . . .

    3) I really do believe in the concept and principle of repentance as one of the core aspects of the Gospel of Jesus Christ, and such a practice, in theory, destroys that need. At least in Catholicism, there is a foundation of confession; in the case you described, there doesn’t seem to be any “condition” on the forgiveness – and that is really, really “wrong” to me.

    In summary, I get it that it can be a wonderful experience for someone who is humble and has a broken heart and contrite spirit, and I get it that it might be considered symbolic in that tradition – but it might not, and, taken literally, I really don’t like a mortal forgiving sins about which he doesn’t know and for which the sinner doesn’t have a repentant heart.

    #242977
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    In the rite I service for the episcopal church this is the general confession. It comes before the eucharist, I suppose, so that those who partake can do so worthily.

    Quote:


    Let us confess our sins unto Almighty God.

    Silence may be kept

    Minister and People

    Most merciful God,

    we confess that we have sinned against thee

    in thought, word, and deed,

    by what we have done,

    and by what we have left undone.

    We have not loved thee with our whole heart;

    we have not loved our neighbors as ourselves.

    We are truly sorry and we earnestly repent.

    For the sake of thy Son Jesus Christ,

    have mercy on us and forgive us;

    that we may delight in thy will,

    and walk in thy ways,

    to the glory of thy Name. Amen.

    or this

    Almighty and most merciful father,

    we have erred and strayed from thy ways like lost sheep,

    we have followed too much the devices and desires of our

    own hearts,

    we have offended against thy holy laws,

    we have left undone those things which we ought to

    have done,

    and we have done those things which we ought not to

    have done.

    But thou, O Lord, have mercy upon us,

    spare thou those who confess their faults,

    restore thou those who are penitent,

    according to thy promises declared unto mankind

    in Christ Jesus our Lord;

    and grand, O most merciful Father, for his sake,

    that we may hereafter live a godly, righteous, and sober life,

    to the glory of thy holy Name. Amen.

    The Bishop when present, or the Priest, stands and says

    The Almighty and merciful Lord grant you absolution and

    remission of all your sins, true repentance, amendment of

    life, and the grace and consolation of his Holy Spirit. Amen.

    My sense is that when people go in to talk with their bishop about unresolved sins their expectation is that he’ll forgive them since he’s seen as a judge. It still comes down to whether the penitent truly is sorry, has fully confessed and wants to make a change. I see it almost as a limit on God’s power that He wants to forgive us by Christ’s atonement but it’s for us to make the final decision whether or not to accept the forgiveness.

    #242978
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    Ray wrote:

    In summary, I get it that it can be a wonderful experience for someone who is humble and has a broken heart and contrite spirit, and I get it that it might be considered symbolic in that tradition – but it might not, and, taken literally, I really don’t like a mortal forgiving sins about which he doesn’t know and for which the sinner doesn’t have a repentant heart.

    All good points, Ray. In fact, many of the points you articulated are the very reasons I felt uneasy as I watched this happen to those in front of me, though my emotions and thoughts were all a jumble at that moment.

    I hope that no one would take that ritual literally – that is, that one’s sins are truly forgiven because a pastor says so. Rather, I’d hope that the truly penitent who experience that would view it as a representation of God’s love and grace when we have a contrite spirit and a broken heart. Unfortunately, too many people probably do understand such a ritual literally, and it likely is intended literally, which for the many reasons you pointed out is problematic.

    We have a lot of provisional promises of sins being forgiven and being made clean from the sins of our generation in the LDS church and its rites, but never (as far as I know) the pronouncement that we are forgiven. In my experience, bishops and others leave it entirely up to the penitent to determine if God has accepted their repentance. I agree that, if interpreted literally, a blanket statement forgiving sins is problematic; nevertheless, hearing those words uttered is powerful and promotes the healing that the contrite in spirit and brokenhearted may need.

    #242979
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    I find it interesting that we can look at different services or rituals, and break them down logically to whether they make sense to us or not (forgiveness of sins by this method or that method), but…when a person has an experience, to that person it is a real spiritual experience. It is just hard to know what it means. Does that mean that ritual is truth? That church we were in when we felt it is truth? That God is pleased with us and our mindset?

    I have no answers for those questions, only that I believe those experiences GBSmith and Andrew had are real and are from the Spirit, and I appreciate hearing those stories. Thanks for sharing.

    #242980
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    Maybe and maybe not. This method of forgiveness doesn’t make sense to me for sure, but if it works for them and they can feel the spirit than I wish them well. And this is huge, if we are going to “get into the business of that we can look at different services or rituals, and break them down logically to whether they make sense to us or not,” as a method to determine are following god and the practice has validity and “truth” and if it’s from god, than I am really in trouble, because my own religion is way over there on the whole goofy scale. Not much of it makes any sense to me. Perhaps we should just start with the whole practice of polygamy and temples and go from there.

    #242981
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    It just occurred to me — that in the mormon world, if one drinks coffee or tea, they are denied a temple recommend which they must have to get the ordinances REQUIRED to receive exaltation and salvation in the highest kingdom.

    Really?

    Perhaps we as mormons should be VERY VERY careful about how we scrutinize other religions view of forgiveness and requirements for salvation because our beliefs are way out there in the common sense arena. I mean, I think Ray is correct about it being a goofy belief – but, our religion is chuck full of them too. It’s becoming more and more apparent that all religions are majorly flawed.

    #242982
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    Cwald — so, then, what does a person believe? This isn’t a challenge to your statement by any means — but if they are all flawed, and truth is mingled with erroneous beliefs, then, what truly should one believe? How does one arrive at that belief? Blank slate…

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