Keep an eye on ILoveChrist77

We have another new user who might be here for the wrong reasons. They’re one of the LDS “sex-addict” types we occasionally get. I approved his introduction, but I also sent him the following coaching PM:

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Hi Ilovechrist77,

You posted your real name in your introduction. I approved your post. It is now public, and all future posts will go direct to public viewing. I edited your post to remove your name though before I approved it.

I would highly recommend not using your real name on our site, especially combined with a confession about a sexual addiction. Our site is monitored at times by Church HQ, and is viewed by many hundreds of people a day. It is also indexed by all the major search engines, so anyone out there could possibly find your post by typing your name into one of those search engines (employers, family members, friends, people who want to do you harm, etc.). It’s just all-around better to stay anonymous unless you have a clear and important reason for becoming a “public person.”

Lastly, our community is more geared towards supporting people with disbelief and doubts about the LDS Church. We can try talking about some limited areas that might intersect with sexual dysfunction and “sin,” but we tend to moderate and limit the conversations when they drifts into becoming a substitute for the Church repentance process.

I just wanted to give you the heads-up about how our community works. We keep pretty tight control at our site in order to ensure the content is focused on our site mission. I hope you find our materials and our community helpful.