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    Thought I would get the ball rolling for discussion… First, as i mentioned in my introduction, I’m a convert. Married in the Temple, and previously fairly content with Church doctrine and ‘policy’. Things have changed. I’ve always had a problem with the statement, “The Church is True”. Why are ‘we’ the only church who seems to constantly have to say this over and over and over again? Is it because ‘we’ feel that if we don’t continually remind ourseves that some may falter? This constant afirmation is almost ‘cult like’. Something you would expect fringe groups ( brown shirt nazi’s, KKK, The Borg ) to expect of their followers. We whisper it into our children’s ear during F&T meeting.

    By saying this we are essentialy telling others of different beliefs that their beliefs are NOT true. I personally have a big problem with that. It’s passive agessive behavior making a statement like that.

    What say ye?

    BOC

    #248816
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    I agree and I also think “believe” or “feel strongly” is more appropriate than “know” in testimonies.

    God ONLY knows! 🙂

    Saying the church has a monopoly on truth is not only ironically false, it is egotistical.

    And as M.J. Ashton said, “An egoist will never get anywhere in this world because he thinks he’s already there.”

    #248817
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    Yes, BOC, the truth claims can sound egotistical, exclusionary, and cult-like. But it is also a confidence many people find reassuring for their lives. It is a draw for some people who don’t find enough guidance from a universal approach of trying to be all things to all people. The claim is a differentiation in the marketplace.

    However, I am grateful the church strongly preaches personal revelation and agency and truth by the spirit. I continue to search for it and understand it, and find many good things to cling to in Mormonism in the mean time.

    I have not found enough evidence to know for sure that the church is false or a bad cult-like group damaging my family, quite the contrary. So I hold on the belief it might be true, or it might not, and I have faith God will guide me or allow me to journey as I am. Others can teach their children what they believe, or make claims over the pulpit, I have no problem with it, but I am calm in church allowing myself to follow the dictates of my conscience, and continue to study and find out for myself how the pieces fit together, because the truth claim is bold…but I see so much truth outside the church also that I don’t want to limit myself to any of it.

    As I’ve visited other churches…I think others preach a similar thing, because people go seeking to find truth…so religion tries to give the people what they want. Mormonism just has its own slant on it.

    How do you view truth? Is there a universal truth out there, or is it all relative? Is it possible we can find it in this life as we see through a glass darkly? What do you think regardless of what is claimed by others at church?

    #248818
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    I don’t think we are the only church that makes such claims.

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    Christ “established here on earth” only one Church and instituted it as a “visible and spiritual community”[5], that from its beginning and throughout the centuries has always existed and will always exist, and in which alone are found all the elements that Christ himself instituted.[6] “This one Church of Christ, which we confess in the Creed as one, holy, catholic and apostolic […]. This Church, constituted and organised in this world as a society, subsists in the Catholic Church, governed by the successor of Peter and the Bishops in communion with him”.[7]

    The above quote came from a statement issued by the Catholic Church (and ratified by Benedict XVI). Perhaps other churches don’t use the statement “The Church is true” in quite the mantralike way that we do but belief in the truth of your position is not unique to the LDS. Even atheists offer fairly “ritual like” statements about their own philosophical positions (e.g. all religious people are deluded and ignorant). In this complex world of shifting ideologies and information surfeit, is it surprising that people of all cultures and religions want to hold on to something concrete? Maybe they are not taught the way our children are to utter their statements of belief in such a regular fashion but you can bet that, if prompted, nearly everyone could fill in the statement “The __________________ is true” with something.

    That said, I do agree in part with Featherina:

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    I agree and I also think “believe” or “feel strongly” is more appropriate than “know” in testimonies.

    God ONLY knows!

    I’m not sure why we have to say “know” when what we probably really mean is a feeling of intense belief with that everpresent element of doubt. And “Doubt” in this case meaning “aspects unknown” as opposed to ” a skeptical attitude”. I’m not sure why we have to “KNOW” anyway except that human beings tend to have a hard time with “ambiguity.”

    #248819
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    Everyone here knows what I’m about to do: :D

    “The One and Only TRUE Church” (http://forum.staylds.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=142&hilit=one+true+church) – 66 comments

    “Is the Church the ONLY Church . . .” (http://forum.staylds.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=575&hilit=one+true+church) – 29 comments

    “One True Church” (http://forum.staylds.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=382&hilit=one+true+church) – 21 comments

    “One True Church” (http://forum.staylds.com/viewtopic.php?f=11&t=2571&hilit=one+true+church) – 15 comments

    Some of the topics we discuss here come up over and over again, because they are so central and important.

    #248820
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    Oh, and be careful about equating the idea of “exclusive truth” with “cult-like behavior”. It isn’t. It’s part of almost EVERY religion and denomination that exists.

    Think about it a little harder, and I think you’ll understand what I mean:

    For example, Protestants also teach the “one true church” idea – but they draw the lines broadly enough to include most other Protestant denominations (and they exclude ANYONE who believes differently than they do). Islam does the same thing, as has Judaism (although much of Judaism has lost its focus in that regard). Pretty much all religions that believe in “one true God” also believe in “one true church / religion” to some degree.

    Finally, just as an administrative note, be careful of the analogies you use. The LDS Church is not like the KKK – or the Nazis – or Jim Jones’s group – or any other “true” cults in most ways (and the ways it is are very much like the ways pretty much all religions are – with the difference being only in degree). I can’t remember where it is right now, and I’ll try to find it if I have time later, but I read an article recently by a survivor of the Jim Jones group (someone who escaped before the mass suicides) – and it is an excellent reminder of what “true cults” really are and how different the LDS Church is from them.

    #248821
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    Thanks Ray for the links. I was pretty sure that this wasn’t the first time this subject was brought up.

    As far as my ‘cult-like’ reference…

    In no way was I trying to say that the Church is a cult. It is not.

    My concern is the repetitiveness of that statement “The Church is True” is something one might hear from a fring group who have their own statements that are repetitive. As the Borg would say, ‘to be assimilated’. (Yes, I watch to much Star Trek)

    I have been a member of other churches all of my life. First, the Church of England for nearly 25 years. Then a non-denominational (born again) for 10 years. Never have I heard them state over and over again that they are the ‘true church’.

    I’ve lived in many states around the country. I’ve traveled the world extensively. Again, in my opinion, this is the only denomination that states and restates this belief.

    I have friends who are offended by that statement. It’s a passive aggressive way of saying we are right and you are wrong. Yet in the same breath some may say “that we believe all denominations have ‘some’ truth).

    It especially bothers me to hear it repeated over and over again in F&T meeting, especially from young children. To me it appears that people are not really sure, unless they state it many, many times.

    Perhaps it’s just me, but it rubs me the wrong way.

    With that said, I still attend church regularly. I have a callings. My family is active. Will this issue alone make me leave? Probably not. I still believe the church teaches good principals. There really is not another church that I would want to attend at this time.

    BTW, this is only one frustration I have…you will hear more in other Parts (posts).

    I’m glad this group is here for me to vent. (Plus it’s a lot cheaper than private therapy).

    :)

    #248822
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    Quote:

    cult   /kʌlt/ Show Spelled[kuhlt] Show IPA

    noun

    1. a particular system of religious worship, especially with reference to its rites and ceremonies.

    2. an instance of great veneration of a person, ideal, or thing, especially as manifested by a body of admirers: the physical fitness cult.

    3. the object of such devotion.

    4. a group or sect bound together by veneration of the same thing, person, ideal, etc.

    5. Sociology . a group having a sacred ideology and a set of rites centering around their sacred symbols

    So what’s the big deal about the word ‘cult’? And why does the LDS church not fit the definition?

    The only truth we can know is the truth that works for us. That’s a Bushman paraphrase, I think, but it has become my own mantra. Everywhere I look, this is what I find. Often I am asked why, if that is true, is there a problem with the LDS church and culture in this regard. It is, apparently, a truth that works for many people, so that should be a good thing. The problem, as I see it, is difficult for me to put into words. I think I will post about it later, but basically it seems to come down to a sense that the group needs to force individuals to conform in their beliefs in order for the organization to prosper.

    #248823
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    I heard a Protestant Pastor use the maxim, “With Christ – there is hope in any situation, without Christ – all situations are hopeless.”

    I later asked him what he meant by this. I have heard people talk about God seemingly leading them through experiences to a point where they are ready to accept the gospel. I also understand an idea whereby God feels after and tenderly calls to his lost children, so surely their situation was never truly hopeless. The pastor answered that the phrase was used to emphasize the great hope that Christ brings to the life of the believers and not to minimize the hope of others.

    Yet, I believe that he is telling the truth according to his understanding. That hope only exists inasmuch as the individual eventually comes to accept the “true” Christ and the “true” gospel.

    Ball_of_Confusion wrote:

    Why are ‘we’ the only church who seems to constantly have to say this over and over and over again? Is it because ‘we’ feel that if we don’t continually remind ourselves that some may falter?

    From my experience Protestant churches accomplish this by touting Christ (He is mighty to save, He delivers). The continuous reminder that we could never measure up, but that He already paid that price for you – is very powerful. From an anthropological perspective these worship meetings have striking similarities to the repetitive F/T Sunday meetings and fulfill a similar function.

    For additional thoughts of the anthropological function and benefits of F/T meetings please see my posting here: http://forum.staylds.com/viewtopic.php?f=11&t=2625&hilit=+anthropological

    #248824
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    BoC, I don’t disagree with anything in your last comment – except that the concept is unique to the LDS Church. As Roy says, pretty much everyone does it – but they say it in different words. A Muslim hearing a Mormon “testify” that “the Church is true” will have the exact same reaction as hearing a Protestant “witness” that Jesus is “the only Way, the Truth and the Light” – and it’s even more “strict” from a Protestant meaning, since, at least, Mormons believe Muslims can be saved and even exalted. Sure, we follow that up with “since all good, sincere people who were valiant in living what they believed” will hear the Gospel preached in purity and accept it at that point (which is just as offensive in the here and now to the Muslim as Protestantism’s more exclusive view), but at least we have that very important caveat that SHOULD blunt the exclusiveness’s inherent egotism.

    Like I’ve said in other threads, it’s one of Mormonism’s greatest paradoxes, imo – the concept that we are a chosen people, but only some of us, and in the exact same way that every righteous person is chosen. Iow, we’re special – in the exact same way that everyone can be special. Iow, I am a child of God – just like every other person who ever has lived.

    So, to actually answer the question in the post, I think anything that makes someone a better person and draws them to God is “true” – and that is exactly the definition the Book of Mormon gives for “good” (especially in Moroni 7:12-14, 19). Sure, it has the caveat in verses 16-17 that modifies the previous verses to focus on Christ, but I chalk that up to a prophet with a specific mission focusing on the people to whom he wrote – with the previous, more comprehensive definition being the baseline definition.

    Finally, our own Articles of Faith are quite clear that we don’t have all “good” or “truth” in the LDS Church – and that some of what we don’t have others do have. Again, at least, the foundation is there within Mormonism for “the Church is true” to mean something VERY different than “the LDS Church is the only source of truth” – and that really does set us apart in a critical way from the Protestant denominations. I think that’s VERY important to keep in mind, since most words have multiple possible meanings – and, thus, the same word or phrase can mean very different things. How we define things is up to us, and we have the freedom and ability to do so – no matter how others may look at it.

    #248825
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    OK I will say it. The church is NOT true. At least in the way it is generally accepted and stated in meetings where the pronouncement is made. It may have some truth, or you may find truth in it, and that alone may make it worthwhile. But as an all encompassing, one and only, my way or the highway, I do not think so. It is a talking point that has been picked up and repeated by members for years. I do not think they even realize what they are saying half the time. I did not for 50 years, I repeated the same thing. It was just a way of expressing your allegiance to the community. I do not think you can really expect members to understand half of what they say they know. It is mostly talking points like said.

    Personally for me after almost two years of rather intensive study and connecting the dots it has become apparent to me Mormonism or organized religion in general does not have any reliability in claiming absolute truth for the universe.They can make the claim all they want but it does not make it so. IMHO take the good you find at church, ignore the bogus statements and enjoy those aspects that work for you.

    #248826
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    Well did Pilate ask, “What is truth?”, not really seeking an answer.

    Because the meaning of ‘What is true?’ depends in large measure upon the definition of the term.

    OED wrote:

    Honest, honourable, upright, virtuous, trustworthy (arch.); free from deceit, sincere, truthful; of actions, feelings, etc., sincere, unfeigned


    Is the church “honest”? Is if ‘free from deceit’? is it ‘unfeigned’?

    In a word, no. The church does not comply with this definition of ‘true’.

    On the other hand, in a confessional sense, to say that the church is ‘true’ has another meaning:

    OED wrote:

    Real, genuine; rightly answering to the description; properly so called; not counterfeit, spurious, or imaginary; also, conforming or approaching to the ideal character of such.


    Is the church real? Does it answer to the description of a church of jesus christ? Is it counterfeit? does it conform to the character of the original church of jesus christ?

    This definition is debatable, but for those who ‘believe’ that the church is legitimate, then for them it is real, not counterfeit, and in most material ways conforms to the original church of jesus christ. it is legitimate to say, as one’s opinion of the church, that it is true by this definition, while it may not be perfectly honest and free from deceit.

    Then there is something that is directionally true, such as ‘true north’ or true level — that the church accurately points to good things to do are realize. From this point of view, the church is arguably true, in that many of its outcomes are good things.

    There is even a definition of ‘true’ in the OED around ‘true for me’. Thus, in a confessional sense, my view of truth is that the church is true [for me], and perhaps as I have committed to it, the ‘only true church’ for me. Given that LDS do not typically reasearch all other religions, they can only reflect what is true for them, not true for the whole world. To say that the church is the ‘only true church’ is acceptable as long was we recognize that it is a personal confession, and what is true for me may not be ‘true for you’. These are valid definitions of ‘true’ in OED.

    The point is that in a confessional sense, in the context of testimony, the words “know” and “true” are not held to the same standard of epistemological knowledge and truth that one might see, for example, in a court of law. Yet a confession of faith, to say that the church is the only true church for me, is a valid testimony. The ‘for me’ being dropped, causes a degree of confusion.

    #248827
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    Cadence wrote:

    IMHO take the good you find at church, ignore the bogus statements and enjoy those aspects that work for you.


    Well said, Cadence. If statements by others feel bogus to you…I agree, ignore them for yourself, and leave that to them if that is part of the “good” they find at church. IOW, find a happy place where you can hear it and dismiss it without it making you batty, or making you feel you need to correct others.

    Truth depends greatly on our point of view.

    #248828
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    Gerald wrote:

    I’m not sure why we have to say “know” when what we probably really mean is a feeling of intense belief with that everpresent element of doubt. And “Doubt” in this case meaning “aspects unknown” as opposed to ” a skeptical attitude”. I’m not sure why we have to “KNOW” anyway except that human beings tend to have a hard time with “ambiguity.”


    I hadn’t considered that, but that make sense.

    I’ve come across the accusation several times that the LDS church is a cult.

    In the broadest sense, cults can be sport team fans, university loyals, company employees, even families…

    A group that requires a certain belief to be a part of.

    In a more specific sense, according to various experts (see source below)…a cult is one that:

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    1) Requires UNquestioning commitment to leader

    2) Questioning, doubt, and dissent are discouraged or even punished

    3) Leaders dictate how members should think, feel & act

    4) Claims special, exalted status for itself/leaders

    5) Polarized us-versus-them mentality

    6) Leader is not accountable to any authorities

    7) Teaches or implies that its supposedly exalted ends justify whatever means it deems necessary

    8) Leadership induces feelings of shame and/or guilt in order to influence and/or control members

    9) Preoccupied with bringing in new members.

    10) Preoccupied with making money

    11) Members are expected to devote inordinate amounts of time to the group and group-related activities

    12) The most loyal members feel there can be no life outside the context of the group & fear reprisals to themselves or others if they leave (or even consider leaving) the group.

    http://www.prem-rawat-talk.org/forum/uploads/CultCharacteristics.htm

    #248829
    Anonymous
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    Heber13 wrote:

    Truth depends greatly on our point of view.


    :thumbup: So True! I need to have that matted, framed and hung up where all could see!

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