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    Recently, Chick Fil A has come “off-the-radar” and zoomed into the limelight.

    I’ve seen many posts on facebook from old friends and mission companions, mission president’s wives, etc., boasting that they’ve struck a blow for free speech and freedom of religion by eating at Chick Fil A last Wednesday, including pictures!

    Obviously (maybe not so obviously) this is a complex issue. I’m beginning to suspect that one of the barriers to better treatment of gays in the church is the fear that we lose our freedom of worship when someone, somewhere allows gay people to marry one another. I know that E Oaks, a former state supreme court justice, said as much. I don’t know if this is his personal judicial opinion, or revelation. In any case, I’ve noticed a lot of my church friends get really fired up when gay marriage threatens their religion/speech universe. People can become very insensitive. They have no idea what they’re doing to their silently suffering gay brothers and sisters. If they did, would they stop? I don’t know…

    BTW, I have a vague suspicion that eating a chicken sandwich isn’t going to save traditional marriage. Better marriages are going to save traditional marriage.

    #256911
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    There has been much discussion of this, hasn’t there? Please don’t automatically see it as support for people who are against gays. It really did turn into a freedom of speech issue when mayors and other local authorities of certain cities decided to misuse their positions and refuse a business permit to Chik-fil-A’s. If you flip it and say any company that supports gays in a public statement could then be subject to having a business permit denied or revoked, does that help to see the freedom of speech issue? I think this has hurt the gay rights movement, in my opinion. Mr. Cathy was speaking in an interview to a Baptist press. This should never have been blown out of such proportion.

    #256912
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    I’ll just say simply: You are free to say and act as you please, but you are not free from the consequences.

    #256913
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    Amen to the last two comments.

    [Admin note: If this is going to have any chance of being a thoughtful, solution-focused discussion (as is our mission here), please be very careful not to take it into areas that aren’t justified by the actual situation.]

    Also:

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    We lose our freedom of worship when someone, somewhere allows gay people to marry one another.I know that Elder Oaks, a former state supreme court justice, said as much.

    Agree or disagree with Elder Oaks’ reasoning, the above statement is not an accurate summary of what he said. That, I believe, needs to be stressed.

    I personally despise the reasoning behind the man’s statement – but it came from a Baptist perspective, so I’m not surprised. I’m sad that Mormons would embrace this as a freedom of religion issue (since it’s not), but I’m not surprised. Frankly, I don’t think most of my fellow congregants have thought deeply enough about the issues (freedom of religion and freedom of speech) to have a truly informed opinion one way or the other – and that pains me, even as it doesn’t surprise me, since it’s true of most people on both sides of the issue, unfortunately.

    Most people (again, on both sides of the issue) draw their conclusions from only thinking seriously about one side – or from very shallow consideration of the other side, just enough to make them feel like they understand the other side.

    To me, this is much more about freedom of speech than it is about freedom of religion. Nobody is trying to stop him from attending a church of his choosing, while some people are trying to take inappropriate action against him based on what he said. Boycotting his business is one thing – and I’m fine with that; denying a business license is another thing completely – and I’m not fine with that. This hasn’t come close to a freedom of religion issue.

    #256914
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    Old-Timer wrote:

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    We lose our freedom of worship when someone, somewhere allows gay people to marry one another.I know that Elder Oaks, a former state supreme court justice, said as much.

    Agree or disagree with Elder Oaks’ reasoning, the above statement is not an accurate summary of what he said. That, I believe, needs to be stressed.

    Ray, I went back and read two addresses of E Oaks in recent years:

    http://www.mormonnewsroom.org/article/oaks-religious-freedom

    http://www.mormonnewsroom.org/article/elder-oaks-religious-freedom-Chapman-University

    On further reflection, my statement was definitely a glib restatement of popular LDS interpretation of E Oaks paragraph on the “Yogyakarta Principles” from the BYU/I talk. In short, it wasn’t very precise. 😳

    Sorry!

    #256915
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    It’s cool. I just like to be as precise and accurate as possible, generally, and especially when dealing with sensitive, emotional issues like this.

    Thanks for posting the links. They help add context.

    #256916
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    I have seen this too. All over my Facebook by all family members. I personally use this as a time to educate them in subtle ways. Most people aren’t even aware of the psychology behind this and why it is used.

    http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/positively-media/201108/us-versus-them-its-time-were-all-in-together” class=”bbcode_url”>http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/positively-media/201108/us-versus-them-its-time-were-all-in-together

    I encourage others to rise above the bad fear these create pitting us against others emotionally as a defense mechanism.

    The best way to accomplish this is with calmness, patience, education and love. To react irrationally to situations like this only encourages others to do the same. We can choose to be a positive influence to others so we and others can choose to peacefully StayLDS.

    #256917
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    turinturambar wrote:

    Old-Timer wrote:


    Quote:

    We lose our freedom of worship when someone, somewhere allows gay people to marry one another.I know that Elder Oaks, a former state supreme court justice, said as much.

    Agree or disagree with Elder Oaks’ reasoning, the above statement is not an accurate summary of what he said. That, I believe, needs to be stressed.


    Ray, I went back and read two addresses of E Oaks in recent years:

    http://www.mormonnewsroom.org/article/oaks-religious-freedom

    http://www.mormonnewsroom.org/article/elder-oaks-religious-freedom-Chapman-University

    On further reflection, my statement was definitely a glib restatement of popular LDS interpretation of E Oaks paragraph on the “Yogyakarta Principles” from the BYU/I talk. In short, it wasn’t very precise. 😳

    Sorry!


    i wouldn’t apologize. Oaks used the Yogyakarta Principles to instill fear in an implied slippery slope fallacy that if we allow the civil right to become so, then we will force our religion to have to recognize gay marriage as well. So yes, in the first talk, he did say what you implied.

    In the second talk, Oaks deliberately ignored the establishment clause, saying that it only applied to establishing a state church, then focused all of his energies on how we need to be able to defend religion’s ability to say whatever it pleases in the public square. He states unequivocally that the LDS church has always been for marriage being defined as one man and one woman, something patently and absolutely not true.

    If I am a unitarian or episcopal believer, gay, and desire to be married to my same-sex partner, then proposition 8 establishes a religious definition of marriage that is not in harmony with the unitarian or episcopal definition, more mercifully recognizing that committed gay couples are infinitely more in harmony with god’s will than uncommitted sexual relationships. This is clearly establishment of a favored religion over another, and Elder Oaks should know better.

    Hence, by linking the establishment of marriage as a civil right to the Yogyakarta Principles, which he KNOWS would not be accepted in constitutional law, he is simply making a gratuitous, fear-based argument. By dismissing the establishment clause, he is unbalanced in his perspective, advocating for one side of a very polemical argument.

    If Elder Oaks wants to advocate for a specific religious definition as a polemical argument, he certainly can; but in so doing through one-side polemics, he loses the credibility that is appropriate for a judge or an apostle, because he is no longer serving the whole truth. As well, I defend the right of Mr Cathy to say anything he wants about the institution of marriage as he sees it. He can in our society donate anything he wants. I have the right to not buy his chicken sandwiches in response. In the end, though, it’s all polemics, and serves to do nothing.

    I liked the sentiment F_C laid out with ‘we’re all in this together’. or as the late Rodney King said, “Why can’t we just get along?”

    #256918
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    Brown wrote

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    You are free to say and act as you please, but you are not free from the consequences.

    I agree with this statement. Back in the late 1990s a business window in a highly Vietnamese area in Santa Ana, California had a Ho Chi Minh picture in the window (a symbol of communist Vietnam). Many of the Vietnamese community (the non-communists were protesting such a picture). Perhaps the store owner wasn’t too bright in doing what he did by posting such an icon of communism, however he had as much right to post the picture as the people protesting it.

    I am grateful for freedom of expression and speech especially when it “ruffles a few feathers.” I am glad to know that America is very much awake and active in exercising freedom.

    There was so much negative press about the Chick-A-Fil-A campaign that I thought that Chick-A-Fil-A was pro gay marriage. It took me a few days to figure it out on my own. Because of all the press I might want some chicken because they serve chicken, not because of all the hoop-la. But on the other hand, the hoop-la actually makes me not want the chicken. Maybe I”ll go to a burger joint because they have bible verses on the bottom of their cups; will I get John 3:16 or Proverbs 3:5?

    #256919
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    jamison wrote:

    But on the other hand, the hoop-la actually makes me not want the chicken. Maybe I”ll go to a burger joint because they have bible verses on the bottom of their cups; will I get John 3:16 or Proverbs 3:5?

    Lol 😆

    Thank you, that’s quite a sense of humor there. 🙂 it made my day. When it comes to publicity like this I choose to stay away from it altogether. Especially since things of this nature tend to be marketing ploys to generate business.

    It worked though. With so many friends from so many cultures in so many nations(such is why I love America). I find it helpful to work as a team instead of bicker and divide. I don’t find that civilized at all.

    #256920
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    turinturambar wrote:

    …I’ve seen many posts on facebook from old friends and mission companions, mission president’s wives, etc., boasting that they’ve struck a blow for free speech and freedom of religion by eating at Chick Fil A last Wednesday…Obviously (maybe not so obviously) this is a complex issue. I’m beginning to suspect that one of the barriers to better treatment of gays in the church is the fear that we lose our freedom of worship when someone, somewhere allows gay people to marry one another…In any case, I’ve noticed a lot of my church friends get really fired up when gay marriage threatens their religion/speech universe. People can become very insensitive. They have no idea what they’re doing to their silently suffering gay brothers and sisters. If they did, would they stop?

    I already think gay marriage should be allowed and that homophobia is ignorant and wrong. However, I really don’t like the idea of trying to force compliance to some general standard of expected political correctness by turning up the heat through boycotts or other measures intended to punish Chick-Fil-A which could actually end up hurting other employees of the company or local franchise owners that didn’t really have anything to do with this uproar far more than the target people are actually trying to lash out at. I really don’t like the idea of turning something like buying a chicken sandwich into some kind of vote for the opinions of the owner or CEO of some restaurant chain when I honestly don’t really want to know what their religious or political views are and the same goes for other large companies that are convenient to do business with; personally I think it sets a bad precedent.

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