Meeting overload

Rotate the meetings among the members of the presidency, and only require one person from the presidency to attend any given meeting outside your own presidency meetings. Call it leadership development, which it legitimately is.

Do a lot via modern technology. Use an invitation only Facebook group for your presidency stuff – or Skype (since it’s free) – and email, since much of what is covered in traditional meetings is informational only. Shorten the meetings you still attend by communicating as much as possible via the methods above.

Don’t attend meetings if there is a direct conflict with an important family activity. Simply tell anyone who asks that you need to spend that time with your family, since the Church leadership has said your family is your most important responsibility.

As I’ve said in other threads, when someone calls you they get YOU. Do your best according to the dictates of your own conscience. “Do what is right; let the consequence follow.”

Congratulations Thoreau –

In response to your comment about a church that encourages family – I find one of my biggest thorns is the increase in meetings we have. I was 17 when the present “3 hour block” schedule came to pass. When the church changed to it – all of the other meetings during the week were permanently cancelled. Everything was to be completed on Sunday, leaving the rest of the week for family, etc. This was drummed into members in the area I grew up in.

Now some 30 years later, we not only filled in the week, we added to Sundays – so yes suddenly leaders in your position are swamped. I commented on this to my bishop the other day. He looked at me like I was nuts. He said – that had never been the plan. This is one area where I would love to research the original letters that were sent out church wide and get clarification on.

I would love to couple those letters with Elder Uchtdorfs admonition about the busyness of life that he just made this past conference – and then ask – What?

I agree with everyone’s suggestions about handling this. You’ll figure it.

Ray – According to my mom who was the Stake YW President at the time of the change – the original intent had cancelled all mid week meetings. When Stake and local leaders heard that they cried foul. When the General Presidencies visited in area trainings the Stake leaders gave them an ear full, explaining that completely cancelling the meetings would be detrimental, that we needed socialization and non-religious nourishment. During the meetings the General Presidencies stood firm in the position that “the Lord wanted it this way”. However a month or so later, the letters were changed and those two areas were re established.

My mom is a stalwart member but she has always worn a badge of honor for her part in effecting change in a global church. She was one of the vocal Stake leaders. I guess I get my spine from her.

Meetings for the sake of meetings! Butt in the seat time! Some personality types loooove this stuff!

But seriously. I agree with the others. Delegate. There is no reason for you to be at Ward Council every time…rotate with your counselors. Use email for business, and only meet with your counselors when necessary. (A little secret…our EQP meets during Sunday School!)

I agree with Ray–when they called you, they got you. There are some sacrifices that have to be made with callings, but I think a lot of stuff can be eliminated with better organization and smart use of current technology.

If it were up to me, church would be 90 minutes. 👿

I can only sympathize.

I was in a stake once where the SP launched a war on meetings.

No meetings on fast sundays, all meetings were significantly pared down and shortened.

It was wonderful.

The worst is auxiliary presidency meetings during the week. If the members of the presidency don’t work, they can last forever, doing nothing. I have been to several 3 hour long meetings, sometimes these are weekly.

Tradition!!! Tradition! (he sings in his best “Fiddler on the Roof” impression)