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February 28, 2013 at 6:06 pm #207441
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GuestI have been reading the various threads/posts on polygamy and appreciate what has been stated and expounded on. I feel though regardless of the church’s past statements, lack of current statements or the church’s view that “well we don’t know but it will all work out in the next life” that if it continues to teach DC132 then it is causing harm to the women of the church!
“A man needs his first wife’s consent (v61), but if she doesn’t give her consent it’s a sin (v65) and SHE will be spiritually destroyed (v64) and he can go forward with the additional wife without her consent (v65).”
Really???? How is that not a threat of eternal damnation? How is that not harmful to the women of the church to be continued to taught this in 2013? We do not still quote BY racist, blacks are less,views in church today so they can’t have the priesthood revelations! The old well that was back then and well God will figure out why he said those things in the next life stance that we take with polygamy….don’t you think blacks would find that offensive and wonder if those attitudes could be reinstated due to “revelation” some day in the future? But with women and polygamy the church continues to enforce that part of our history and that it could be again to the women of the church?
If you are a modern day women how can you read that and not have a visceral gut reaction to the “supposed “revelation” and therefore conclude that:
1.Women do NOT have the right to determine even something as sacred as their marriage and sexual relationships
2.If you do not follow male leaders even is something as personal as your right to determine whether your husband has multiple sexual partners, or on the flip side if you are to be wife #32 then your soul will be DESTROYED!
3.The threat that your soul will be destroyed if you do not follow male leaders takes away your free agency
4.God must not value women very much
5.There is ALWAYS the buried and veiled but persistent threat and worry that polygamy will be reinstated in this life and that I as a woman will have to choose between following and my soul
6.Men are suppose to and always will have complete power and control over women spirituality and sexually
7.Women are to be used by men as men see fit
If you are a modern day man how can you read that statement and not have a part of you not feel that:
1.Polygamy is your RIGHT if not now then someday.
2.Women really do need to listen and follow men regardless of how they may feel on any subject or their eternal souls will be endanger.
3.I am more important and special to God then women.
Yes yes I know that is not what the church means to say, but if they continue to teach DC 132 in Sunday school without any explanation other than “well we don’t know and it will be worked out in the next life”,
It will continue to cause serious harm to the women of the church!!
And just because your wife or mother or sister has been indoctrinated to accept polygamy it does not mean that DC 132 does not cause her to at least pause for a moment and go hmmm. Many women simply won’t acknowledged their feelings with regards to the church. Would you after doctrinal threats like that?
It is very frustrating to be told by men to just relax and it will be worked out in the next life.
Great, then why Mr.Priesthood holder are you upset about polyandry? You are not even being taught about it in sunday school or having it be a central theme that you have to accept. You are also not bieng threatend doctrinal in the scriptures with the damnation of your soul, at least not
publiclythe way DC 132 does when continued to be reinforced and taught the way it is now. I think if there was a scripture worded the way DC 132 is about polyandry, whether in this life or the next,then the guys might start to get a little understanding of what women feel in the church.
“The higher priesthood holding man needs the consent of the husband to take his wife, but if he doesn’t give his consent it is a sin and
HEwill be spiritually destroyed and the higher ranking priesthood male can go forward with taking the wife without the husbands consent”. Either way,
potentiallywomen still have the threat of one day not having control of their lives if they are to remain faithful members of the church. It is 2013 and we are still teaching this, sad. February 28, 2013 at 8:14 pm #266415Anonymous
GuestI agree with your position in many ways, Dax, but I feel like I need to point out the following: Quote:if (The Church) continues to teach DC132
I know it’s still in the D&C as scripture, and I know we study the D&C every few years, but, just like the other stuff we basically ignore from our other scriptures (including the Book of Mormon), we don’t really teach D&C 132 anymore as a church. It’s kind of treated as an explanation for what used to be and nothing more.
Honestly, I don’t remember hearing D&C 132 referenced in a General Conference talk or a Sacrament Meeting talk. It might have happened at some point in the last 50 years of my time attending church, but I don’t remember one case.
I wouldn’t cry if that section was removed from the D&C, but our method of operation is more to ignore stuff we don’t accept anymore (like Paul’s cultural messages about women speaking in church and not cutting their hair). I’m OK with that, since I personally like to know what used to be believed – and since critics would use the removal of a section from the D&C as further proof of white-washing. Given those two alternatives, I’m OK with ignoring and not teaching it.
February 28, 2013 at 8:31 pm #266416Anonymous
GuestIt’s not good at all. I’ve said elsewhere it’s okay if it’s consenting adults IMHO but I don’t like this at all, since women are forced into it.
Personally though I think the next step is to have women speak at GC general sessionsm
February 28, 2013 at 8:52 pm #266417Anonymous
GuestI canremember talking in Sunday school about how Joseph modified revelations as he grew in his understanding — so I don’t see any reason why the top leadership can’t edit 132 to bring it in line with current teachings on the subject. It could be much much shorter and address the monogamous version of eternal marriage & covenants, exaltation etc. without the polygamy and women submission parts. That’s my vote.
February 28, 2013 at 9:06 pm #266418Anonymous
GuestDax, I completely agree with you regarding the awfulness of the section. My only caveat is that I am a man and I find it absolutely ugly. So, please don’t assume that men carry a copy of it around in their wallet and look at it when they feel lonely. I hate it. I want the church to retract it… and I’m a Mormon (man). February 28, 2013 at 9:07 pm #266419Anonymous
GuestOrson wrote:I
canremember talking in Sunday school about how Joseph modified revelations as he grew in his understanding — so I don’t see any reason why the top leadership can’t edit 132 to bring it in line with current teachings on the subject. It could be much much shorter and address the monogamous version of eternal marriage & covenants, exaltation etc. without the polygamy and women submission parts. That’s my vote.

Seconded!
February 28, 2013 at 9:34 pm #266420Anonymous
GuestOld-Timer wrote:I agree with your position in many ways, Dax, but I feel like I need to point out the following:
Quote:if (The Church) continues to teach DC132
I know it’s still in the D&C as scripture, and I know we study the D&C every few years, but, just like the other stuff we basically ignore from our other scriptures (including the Book of Mormon), we don’t really teach D&C 132 anymore as a church. It’s kind of treated as an explanation for what used to be and nothing more.
Honestly, I don’t remember hearing D&C 132 referenced in a General Conference talk or a Sacrament Meeting talk. It might have happened at some point in the last 50 years of my time attending church, but I don’t remember one case.
I wouldn’t cry if that section was removed from the D&C, but our method of operation is more to ignore stuff we don’t accept anymore (like Paul’s cultural messages about women speaking in church and not cutting their hair). I’m OK with that, since I personally like to know what used to be believed – and since critics would use the removal of a section from the D&C as further proof of white-washing. Given those two alternatives, I’m OK with ignoring and not teaching it.
I guess it’s almost a miracle that the church doesn’t teach it, but women learn it. They do. And it’s painful. I think they cope with the pain differently; there isn’t a predictable cause/effect timeline.
I’m saying everything on this topic with a heart full of love for the good men in my life. And that’s the way a lot of women are, I imagine. But silence shouldn’t be misconstrued. This why the Brian Hales “no one complained” observation gets me. I know what he means is that we don’t have a record of anyone complaining. Would that we could put a cosmic microphone up to the mouth of all women who lived polygamously and tell them to be honest.
February 28, 2013 at 9:42 pm #266421Anonymous
GuestI’m not really even sure that D&C 132 came, as we have it, from JS. Here are a handful of reasons for my suspicions: – The revelation was never published during JS’s lifetime. It was made public August 28th, 1852 and first printed in the Deseret News, September 14, 1852. It was published abroad, in the English Millenial Star in 1869. It appeared in the D&C, for the first time, in 1876.
– JS did apparently dictate a revelation and show it to Emma. This fact was recorded by William Clayton, JS’s scribe. According to later info, Emma burned the revelation. However, a man named Joseph Kingsbury was said to have copied the original before Emma burned it.
– William Law said, in 1887, that he had seen the revelation and that it was much shorter than the one in the D&C… that’s a long time to remember that specific detail, however.
– From a textual criticism viewpoint, there are many elements that could point to it having been written at a later time: 1) verse 60 hints at JS’s “sacrifice which I will require at his hands” probably referencing the martyrdom, 2) references to Emma being destroyed if she doesn’t accept, certainly the view of Utah-era mormons, 3) polygamy as described in D&C 132 closely reflects Utah-era polygamy (organized and institutionalized, with formulated rules and procedures, done to multiply and replenish the earth, only virgin women, first wife to give consent), and does not closely reflect Nauvoo-era polygamy (highly varied; lacking consistency, marriages without children, probably most marriages without sex, polyandry, marriages kept secret from Emma).
– To me, it doesn’t sound like a JS revelation. It is very dogmatic and lacks his usual flair.
I’m not saying that JS was innocent of polygamy… he clearly practiced it, and it caused problems with Emma, with other church leaders, with neighbors, and eventually led to his demise. I’m just skeptical that Section 132 contains the words as dictated by JS.
February 28, 2013 at 10:04 pm #266422Anonymous
GuestOh I do not think that all men in the church like this section……thanks to all of the above that have stated as much!!! I think most though do not realize the amount of internal harm that the statement can cause for a lot of women.
The section is coming up in Sunday school here soon and I always get annoyed with the comments I hear about it or the absolute silence.
What happened to free agency? When did God start becoming all old testament again?
I believe that even if it is read and ignored by the class it is still sending the message however subtle that women are in a position to potentially not have control of their lives and sexual relations and that is how God has designed it.
I also agree Ray that it would be whitewashing the history.
I feel though that since there is so much confusion regarding the matter of polygamy and the standard answer from the top is “oh well we don’t know and it will get worked out in the next life” than this section needs to be clarified that it was most likely NOT inspired revelation. Even that small caveat would mean huge things in regard to women but that would bring up a whole other set of questions so the church will never allow that.
Again I do not think that most men in the church or the top mean for this section to cause so much harm it simply has never occurred to them why or how much it can hurt women.
I remember being a teenager and reading this section for the first time in seminary, my first thought was absolutely that “God does not love women as much as men in this church”.
The seminary teacher tried to explain it was because they needed more Mormons to be born at that time, he didn’t mention the whole CK theory thank goodness or I may have become an atheist on the spot. (did not know about the CK until recently)
Still made me feel like crap at the realization that women were usable in that way in the church. Still does bother me.
I believe God does love women, it just going to be frustrating to try to teach that to my daughter when there is a lot out there that makes it seem like we are not as valued or important.
February 28, 2013 at 10:04 pm #266423Anonymous
GuestAnn wrote:Would that we could put a cosmic microphone up to the mouth of all women who lived polygamously and tell them to be honest.
From Eliza Partridge (Smith) (Lyman) in 1877:
Quote:After a time, my sister Emily and myself went to live in the family of the Prophet Joseph Smith. We lived there about three years. While there, he taught to us the plan of celestial marriage and asked us to enter into that order with him. This was truly a great trial for me but I had the most implicit confidence in him as a Prophet of the Lord and not but believe his words and as a matter of course accept of the privilege of being sealed to him as a wife for time and all eternity. We were sealed in 1843 by H. C. K. in the presence of witnesses. I continued to live in his family for a length of time after this but did not reside there when he was martyred which was the 27th of June, 1844.
I was then living with a family by the name of Coolidge. I stayed with them for a year or more until I was married to a man by the name of Amasa Lyman, one of the Twelve Apostles. I then went to live with my mother for a while and after that lived with him and his wife, Maria Louisa. Times were not then as they are now in 1877, but a woman living in polygamy dare not let it be known and nothing but a firm desire to keep the commandments of the Lord could have induced a girl to marry in that way. I thought my trials were very severe in the line and I am often led to wonder how it was that a person of my temperament could get along with it and not rebel, but I know it was the Lord who kept me from opposing his plans although in my heart I felt that I could not submit to them; but I did and I am thankful to my Heavenly Father for the care he had over me in those troublous times.
February 28, 2013 at 10:29 pm #266424Anonymous
GuestOrson wrote:I
canremember talking in Sunday school about how Joseph modified revelations as he grew in his understanding — so I don’t see any reason why the top leadership can’t edit 132 to bring it in line with current teachings on the subject. It could be much much shorter and address the monogamous version of eternal marriage & covenants, exaltation etc. without the polygamy and women submission parts. That’s my vote.

I agree.
Quote:that would bring up a whole other set of questions so the church will never allow that.
Yup, I wonder if messing with it might not be messing with a sleeping dog. I’m not saying that it doesn’t do damage in its sleeping (downplayed) state. But removing/changing it could bring up uncomfortable questions about what was going on. If polygamy wasn’t God sanctioned then JS and others participated in something very similar to adultery (spiritual wifery maybe?). If this was wrong then what? Does JS the adulterer make it into heaven? If so, would the same leniency and mercy be shown to the average Joe? D&C specifically says that adulterers will inherit the telestial kingdom along with all the “liars, and sorcerers…, and whoremongers, and whosoever loves and makes a lie.” Are we really ready to start comparing JS to King David (as a great man of God that did great things but also some terrible things).
Saying that polygamy might not have been God sanctioned is not quite the same as saying God commanded polygamy for a certain brief period that is now ancient history or that BY and others appear to have been influenced by the racism of their day to with-hold church privileges to people of African descent. It could be HUGE!!!!
February 28, 2013 at 11:26 pm #266425Anonymous
GuestRoy, I don’t think that it is that black or white. In my own mind, while I emphatically reject polygamy as being from God, I don’t really believe it was all a ruse to sleep with as many women as possible. I just believe JS was too substantial of a figure, who accomplished too much, to simply be relegated to creeper status.
Personally, I think it had more to do with family bonding, similar to royal marriages. Just before polygamy burst onto the scene, JS nearly lost control of the church to the Whitmer family, and in the ensuing power struggle, the Whitmers were exommunicated. This included Oliver Cowdery and Hiram Page, early important leaders in the church, who were married to Whitmer daughters. The Smith family, conversely, wasn’t related by marriage to any family of consequence in the church hierarchy. My opinion is that JS saw the value of family bonds, as a way to strengthen the movement. Some of his wives were family members of important church leaders of the Nauvoo era. Heber C Kimball’s only daughter (at the time), Willard Richard’s sister, Brigham Young’s sister, Newel K. Whitney’s daughter. Familial relationships must have become very important for the inner circle Mormons as the doctrines were developed regarding families in the eternities, and I think polygamy provided a way to accomplish it.
In addition, polygamy solved a quandary about eternal marriages in a time when most people would probably have more than one spouse in their lifetime, due to plain old mortality.
Finally, JS made a real attempt to connect with the ancient. Aaronic and Melchizedek Priesthoods, for example. Restoring the ancient church. Translation of the bible. Study of Hebrew. Apostles and Patriarchs. Zion. Temples. Revelations or translations regarding Moses and Abraham. Using masonic elements (supposedly from ancient orders connected to the Temple of Solomon) in his own rituals… JS had a fascination with that kind of thing… It’s not out of the realm of possibility that JS was just trying, sincerely, to model his society after the time of the patriarchs.
In other words, his motives could have been sincere… I don’t think it is even a stretch to believe so.
Here’s a proposed statement that I suggested the church could make (from a long-ago thread on these forums):
“In the early days of the Church, Joseph Smith attempted to coalesce the doctrine of eternal marriage with the reality that many would be married more than once in this life. He came to believe and to preach that eternal marriages could be performed between a righteous man and more than one woman. Later prophets, including Brigham Young, followed the teachings faithfully, and polygamy grew to become a major characteristic of the Church. In 1890, the Church officially ceased the practice of polygamy. We now declare that while Joseph Smith, Brigham Young, and other faithful leaders of the time tried to mesh their lives with the principles that they learned from God, that polygamy itself is not a doctrine of the gospel. We declare that a man should have one spouse and that a woman should have one spouse, and that it will be so in the eternities.”
March 1, 2013 at 12:23 am #266426Anonymous
GuestOn Own Now wrote:“In the early days of the Church, Joseph Smith attempted to coalesce the doctrine of eternal marriage with the reality that many would be married more than once in this life. He came to believe and to preach that eternal marriages could be performed between a righteous man and more than one woman. Later prophets, including Brigham Young, followed the teachings faithfully, and polygamy grew to become a major characteristic of the Church. In 1890, the Church officially ceased the practice of polygamy. We now declare that while Joseph Smith, Brigham Young, and other faithful leaders of the time tried to mesh their lives with the principles that they learned from God, that polygamy itself is not a doctrine of the gospel. We declare that a man should have one spouse and that a woman should have one spouse, and that it will be so in the eternities.”
Good point On Own Now,
I still don’t see it happening any time soon partly because there doesn’t seem to be any real pressure to make it so and the other part being that any real answer to a non-“God said so” answer would necessarily be complex and not fit well into soundbites.
But, I have been wrong before and change is coming and happening now – stranger things have happened.
March 1, 2013 at 12:34 am #266427Anonymous
GuestOn Own Now wrote:“In the early days of the Church, Joseph Smith attempted to coalesce the doctrine of eternal marriage with the reality that many would be married more than once in this life. He came to believe and to preach that eternal marriages could be performed between a righteous man and more than one woman. Later prophets, including Brigham Young, followed the teachings faithfully, and polygamy grew to become a major characteristic of the Church. In 1890, the Church officially ceased the practice of polygamy. We now declare that while Joseph Smith, Brigham Young, and other faithful leaders of the time tried to mesh their lives with the principles that they learned from God, that polygamy itself is not a doctrine of the gospel. We declare that a man should have one spouse and that a woman should have one spouse, and that it will be so in the eternities.”
Great wording On Our Own. I would add though that such sections as DC 132 need to be addressed as most likely incorrect or they will still do harm. This is supposed “revelation” straight from God.
I also agree with Ann that women being silent about these things is not agreement more conditioning.
March 1, 2013 at 1:02 am #266428Anonymous
GuestDax wrote:I have been reading the various threads/posts on polygamy and appreciate what has been stated and expounded on.
I feel though regardless of the church’s past statements, lack of current statements or the church’s view that “well we don’t know but it will all work out in the next life” that if it continues to teach DC132 then it is causing harm to the women of the church!
I agree
Dax wrote:If you are a modern day man how can you read that statement and not have a part of you not feel that:
1.Polygamy is your RIGHT if not now then someday.
2.Women really do need to listen and follow men regardless of how they may feel on any subject or their eternal souls will be endanger.
3.I am more important and special to God then women.
No man can possibly agree with 1, 2 or 3…even though 132 does imply what you say. It sucks….either Joseph or Brigham was listening to something besides teh spirit.
Dax wrote:Yes yes I know that is not what the church means to say, but if they continue to teach DC 132 in Sunday school without any explanation other than “well we don’t know and it will be worked out in the next life”,
It will continue to cause serious harm to the women of the church!!
Not just “Yeah!” but a resounding “Hell Yeah! Keep on telling the truth!”
Dax wrote:Great, then why Mr.Priesthood holder are you upset about polyandry? You are not even being taught about it in sunday school or having it be a central theme that you have to accept. You are also not bieng threatend doctrinal in the scriptures with the damnation of your soul, at least not
publiclythe way DC 132 does when continued to be reinforced and taught the way it is now. I think if there was a scripture worded the way DC 132 is about polyandry, whether in this life or the next,then the guys might start to get a little understanding of what women feel in the church.
Personally, I don’t find the idea of voluntary polygamy/polyandry offensive as long as everyone has their free agency. They way it was done in the church is not that. It was in no way doctrinally defend-able and involved in most cases the loss of free agency in some way shape or form.
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