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August 18, 2013 at 9:58 pm #207785
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GuestA funny thing has happened to me as a result of my current faith transition—I no longer believe in the devil/Satan as a salient force in my life or the lives of others. If he’s out there somewhere, I think he’s more or less irrelevant. I do believe in good spirits and bad spirits, and I’ve definitely had experiences with both. However, I find myself more and more impatient and frustrated by the discourse around Satan in my experiences in the Church; e.g. the idea that we must be constantly vigilant and paranoid because an evil spirit or spirits are out to get us; that the temptations and whispering of these spirits are necessary in order for us to exercise agency; that all evil in the universe is “created” by him, or that evil things are “of the devil”, etc. I just find that fear and paranoia are no longer useful for me in my spiritual walk. So, I have a question for all y’all: Is it necessary for spiritual safety/progress to believe in Satan?
August 18, 2013 at 11:17 pm #271113Anonymous
GuestQuote:Is it necessary for spiritual safety/progress to believe in Satan?
Not for everyone, but certainly for some people.
I’m ambivalent about it, personally – but, at the practical level, I choose to blame myself and others (choice and heredity) for the bad in the world, not “the devil”. As I have said elsewhere, I believe we determine who the God of this world is (globally, communally and individually) by who we are and what we do much more than by whom we say we worship.
August 19, 2013 at 12:07 am #271114Anonymous
GuestInteresting. I’ve experienced a similar thing. Satan is not supposed to be able to enter the temple (or is that an urban myth, is that an official statement). When I think back to certain thoughts I’ve had in the temple, or the fact that the changing rooms have lockable locks or that those with “unkind thoughts for another in the prayer circle” are not to participate in the prayer, I am reminded that I bring myself into the temple with all my existing issues.
A TBM might well say I’m fulfilling scripture in saying all this:
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2 Nep 28:22 And behold, others he flattereth away, and telleth them there is no hell; and he saith unto them: I am no devil, for there is none—and thus he whispereth in their ears, until he grasps them with his awful chains, from whence there is no deliverance.
August 19, 2013 at 12:14 am #271115Anonymous
GuestI do believe in Hell – and I believe in devils. I’m just not sure they are literal, as most people view them. Having said that, I do believe in evil spirits (although I’m not sure exactly what that means) – and I also believe in ultimate, pure evil – so I don’t reject the existence of The Devil. I just don’t know and am ambivalent, given how wrong I believe most beliefs in The Devil are.
August 19, 2013 at 12:18 am #271116Anonymous
GuestPro Satan: An aunt relayed to me that her family had a number of challenges that caused trouble and discord in the marriage. A short time later thay discovered that my Uncle was being called to an important calling. They decided that Satan was trying to keep them from this important responsibility. They were able to redouble their united effort to resist the discord. Con Satan: Not long ago the EQ lesson was on anger and the focus was that Satan controls and manipulates us through anger. I felt that we missed an opportunity to discuss anger triggers and coping mechanisms by implying that if you get angry – you must be opening your heart to Satan.
August 19, 2013 at 2:36 pm #271117Anonymous
Guestturinturambar wrote:A funny thing has happened to me as a result of my current faith transition—I no longer believe in the devil/Satan as a salient force in my life or the lives of others. If he’s out there somewhere, I think he’s more or less irrelevant. I do believe in good spirits and bad spirits, and I’ve definitely had experiences with both. However,
I find myself more and more impatient and frustrated by the discourse around Satan in my experiences in the Church; e.g. the idea that we must be constantly vigilant and paranoid because an evil spirit or spirits are out to get us; that the temptations and whispering of these spirits are necessary in order for us to exercise agency; that all evil in the universe is “created” by him, or that evil things are “of the devil”, etc. I just find that fear and paranoia are no longer useful for me in my spiritual walk…So, I have a question for all y’all: Is it necessary for spiritual safety/progress to believe in Satan?I’m not sure what to think as far as whether Satan exists or not but even if he does I doubt that he has nearly as much of an effect on the average person as the Church continues to teach. The mythology about us being involved in some kind of epic battle between good and evil basically serves the purpose of making Mormon traditions and unwavering loyalty to the organization seem more important than they really are based on any natural and unavoidable consequences of disregarding the Church. The general idea is that you better watch out because there is supposedly some unseen boogeyman that is out to get you and if you make one misstep then it could end up being a slippery slope that leads to complete and utter ruin. These not-so-subtle scare tactics will increasingly ring hollow to many members that disobey the Church only to find out for themselves that in many cases nothing bad ever happens as a direct result.
August 19, 2013 at 4:23 pm #271118Anonymous
GuestDevilsAdvocate wrote:The general idea is that you better watch out because there is supposedly some unseen boogeyman that is out to get you and if you make one misstep then it could end up being a slippery slope that leads to complete and utter ruin. These not-so-subtle scare tactics will increasingly ring hollow to many members that disobey the Church only to find out for themselves that in many cases nothing bad ever happens as a direct result.
Sounds like something the devil would say or maybe … the devil’s advocate.
Quote:And there are also secret combinations, even as in times of old, according to the combinations of the devil, for he is the founder of all these things; yea, the founder of murder, and works of darkness; yea, and he leadeth them by the neck with a flaxen cord, until he bindeth them with his strong cords forever.
👿 Seriously though, to be fair the church does a pretty good job of steering youth away from harmful choices. I don’t think that anyone would argue that drug use, binge drinking, or promiscuous and unprotected sex are necessary adolescent experiences. I think that the problem is in building additional hedges against the least gateway activity, acting like a breach of the hedge is in itself a sin, and using social pressure to ensure compliance.
I have written before about “guardrails.” Guardrails are personal standards that an individual decides upon to keep themselves from compromising positions. The idea to only double date would make a good guardrail. Unfortunately, I believe that many of these guardrails have been treated like they apply to all and institutionalized.
Quote:Sometimes, well-meaning amplifications of divine principles—many coming from uninspired sources—complicate matters further, diluting the purity of divine truth with man-made addenda. One person’s good idea—something that may work for him or her—takes root and becomes an expectation. And gradually, eternal principles can get lost within the labyrinth of “good ideas.”
It is not helpful when we compare the decision to solo date to a “flaxen cord” or say that they aren’t supporting the brethren or just want to sin. The depiction is too black and white to invite meaningful discussion and hopefully arrive at new understandings.
August 19, 2013 at 4:46 pm #271119Anonymous
GuestPrimary class yesterday included some points about Satan causing bad people to persecute the saints in Missouri, because Satan is down here trying to keep the church from growing because he knows that will ruin his plans. The mobs were being led by Satan. The Saints were being led by the Spirit. I thought as I listened that it is a simple way to teach the 11 yr olds in the class. They can grasp the idea of good and evil, and that they should choose good. I like the idea in the Pearl of Great Price, that like Moses, we can take control of our choices and tell Satan to “Depart hence, Satan” (Moses 1:18) and not be subjected to an external force that might control us, but that we have the power to choose.
I think as those primary kids mature, the reality of a Satan causing all these things to happen melts away to a more abstract idea of it…which doesn’t necessarily change the meaning of things, nor the need to fight internally for good.
Satan, the serpent, the Tree of Good and Evil, the Story of Job, the Book of Mormon, revelation, priesthood, temples, and heaven/hell…all things that can be understood symbolically even if you let go of literal belief in them, and still give you meaning and direction in your life.
August 19, 2013 at 10:48 pm #271120Anonymous
GuestRoy wrote:DevilsAdvocate wrote:The general idea is that you better watch out because there is supposedly some unseen boogeyman that is out to get you and if you make one misstep then it could end up being a slippery slope that leads to complete and utter ruin. These not-so-subtle scare tactics will increasingly ring hollow to many members that disobey the Church only to find out for themselves that in many cases nothing bad ever happens as a direct result.
Sounds like something the devil would say or maybe … the devil’s advocate.
Quote:And there are also secret combinations, even as in times of old, according to the combinations of the devil, for he is the founder of all these things; yea, the founder of murder, and works of darkness; yea, and he leadeth them by the neck with a flaxen cord, until he bindeth them with his strong cords forever.
👿 Seriously though, to be fair the church does a pretty good job of steering youth away from harmful choices. I don’t think that anyone would argue that drug use, binge drinking, or promiscuous and unprotected sex are necessary adolescent experiences. I think that the problem is in building additional hedges against the least gateway activity, acting like a breach of the hedge is in itself a sin, and using social pressure to ensure compliance.
I have written before about “guardrails.” Guardrails are personal standards that an individual decides upon to keep themselves from compromising positions. The idea to only double date would make a good guardrail. Unfortunately, I believe that many of these guardrails have been treated like they apply to all and institutionalized.
Quote:Sometimes, well-meaning amplifications of divine principles—many coming from uninspired sources—complicate matters further, diluting the purity of divine truth with man-made addenda. One person’s good idea—something that may work for him or her—takes root and becomes an expectation. And gradually, eternal principles can get lost within the labyrinth of “good ideas.”
It is not helpful when we compare the decision to solo date to a “flaxen cord” or say that they aren’t supporting the brethren or just want to sin. The depiction is too black and white to invite meaningful discussion and hopefully arrive at new understandings.
Hi Turin. It’s good to hear from you again, and with such a thought provoking and positive topic.
I have thought about for a long time. The base idea is sound, good actions and thoughts and bad.
Rather then good and evil. The word evil itself invokes all kinds of negative feelings and cogitation.
So the concept of an invisible supernatural man from on high trying to get into our minds to serve his end isn’t new or unique to even religion. How can we teach this when people believe the same concept of aliens and tinfoil hats.
Only the person changed in that lesson. Which isn’t important. Especially since you can’t see or protect yourself in either situation. Rather how can
Mostly because you can’t run away or protect yourself from your own mind. And are thoughts bad in and of themselves.
Thoughts just lead to possibilities. Exploring feelings and possibilities tend to be good.
Acting on them can be good or bad, but phrasing it is evil evokes emotions of fear, hate, loathing, spite, depression.
Then again, maybe that is the idea of satan lol. Just the idea itself getting into your mind in a literal sense has a negative impact. Thinking about it as an allegory turns the whole negative situation around from paranoia and fear and hate to a positive thought.
People used to believe certain people were posses of satan because of their thoughts and actions, some people still do but it never helps the situation.
I have no idea if satan exist in another realm or not, but he most certainly does have power over people’s minds or ideas.
That idea is one of the worst that humans have ever come up with. Responseable for many millions of deaths, persecutions.
Most psychologist today agree that it has absolutely done more harm then good.
That is why we rephrase it now to good actions and thoughts and bad.
To actually treat and diagnose to help people or to help people to understand what is affecting someone. Not to say they are possessed of evil. That doesn’t help anything.
It’s like saying the devil planted aids for people who had sex outside of marriage so don’t help them.
That idea was popular and did circulate in the 80s. Rather then diagnose and try to treat the situation, all it teaches is to place blame, which doesn’t help the situation, and makes it worse.
I don’t see a need to teach about satan anymore and will certainly teach my kids a better less destructive method of viewing behavior. I’ve personally seem it wreck to much havoc and cause too much caous to let it spread and propagate.
I’m more focused on good mental health approaches now then tradition or old concepts that have proven mentally unhealthy over time.
Esiecaully talking to children like their stupid. Just talk to them in plain English like a normal adult conversation. Over time you will be amazed at how much they understand.
August 20, 2013 at 8:11 pm #271121Anonymous
GuestInteresting OP. I would say that I do not believe in the old excuse “well the devil made me do it” side of many religions. As others have said, mental illness, our own genetic tendencies etc. are all very real and up to use to manage and control as best we can with the tools available to us. That being said, I have NO doubt that there is certainly a “devil” and or “evil beings” out there. Do I think that they are running around planting every “bad” thought or “impulse” in our head? No. There is a darkness though that can not be explained through mere human “disorders”. My personal belief, but the darkness I have seen leaves no question to me that there are two forces at work for humans “free will” whatever you want to call that.There are things/forces that may not be able to directly “make” you do something but they certainly feed off the pain,fear,humiliation,deapair,rage,and loss of innocence that people inflict on one another. Just as I have seen miracles for the good that can not be explained away as simply “coincidence”.
August 25, 2013 at 12:28 am #271122Anonymous
GuestFrom reading the things I’ve read, especially about depth psychology, I’ve thought similar things. I just finished reading The Soul’s Codeby James Hillman (which I highly recommend to everyone here) and it deals with the idea of “bad seeds”: how some notable evil people in history have seemed to have personal callings towards evil. This has me trying to refine the idea that I was developing before: kind of like the tribal story about two wolves within every soul. I have become comfortable with the belief that the potential for evil and depravity exist within each of our spirits, and along with that have developed a hypothesis that maybe Satan is something like an artificial intelligence: a spiritual being, yes, one that encourages us to follow the worst within ourselves, but after all maybe not a conscious entity in the way we believe our spirits to be. August 25, 2013 at 1:22 am #271123Anonymous
GuestI think people blame Satan for everythning to the point my eyes glaze over when I heart it. Much of the temptation in the world is caused by failing to control our environment to avoid temptation, the choice of other people, opportunity, and the overall agency of mankind. I suppose he may be alive and well, but I think people give him a lot more credit than he deserves.
August 26, 2013 at 1:32 am #271124Anonymous
GuestIt gives some people comfort. Especially when we had no understanding of the human brain and how it works. It’s a fine guess to make I suppose with no evidence to go on.
But today while we still have far to go we have also come far with brain understanding in the last 20 years then in all the history of humanity. We should be using that research to develop new understanding of people. How each one if us can do incredible evil or incredible good. Strong convections without questioning can drive a man or women to do both without thinking he has done wrong. Especially if the reasoning is the ends justifys means. It’s simpler to say Hitlar, Temujin or serial killers etc. it’s a easy to understand explanation without getting into the complex realities of the new studies that show it comes from I Mydrid of things. From new research that shows a general link among detail killers with matching strand of DNA. To free will with strong convection. To emotional or physical trauma can chase the brain to reroute and make the neru connections possible for this absolute conviction. But it does terrible disservice to the complex realities, to form a sound bite on something so complex. It defeats the problem of addressing the real causes and symptoms. In the future adjusting the brain pathway and connections may be possible to help avoid this line of thought if traditional therapy won’t help. But excepting the new understanding of the realities and complexities that the evil and good thoughts reside in our own brain pathways helps us to better deal with the problem.
Just as not trying to blame the devil helps a alcoholic in acknowledging the my rid of things that cause a person to start down that road in the fist place and help fix the individual situation with the individual problem. Rather then a mass stereo type that helps us feel better in general but does 0 to help us really understand and attempt to fix it.
We like to think that it is someone else, and we personally are above all it, it couldn’t possible happen to us if we do x, y, z.
It helps us feel better and in control more. The reality is those with string visions, revolutionarys , visionary, and a string conviction are capable of just as much good or evil. It’s a paradox, because there a persons passion or desire of absolute conviction is what drives the best and worst in us all.
August 27, 2013 at 4:48 pm #271125Anonymous
GuestSilentDawning wrote:I think people blame Satan for everythning to the point my eyes glaze over when I heart it. Much of the temptation in the world is caused by failing to control our environment to avoid temptation, the choice of other people, opportunity, and the overall agency of mankind.
I suppose he may be alive and well, but I think people give him a lot more credit than he deserves.
I wholeheartedly agree with you SilentDawning.
Many of us here, it seems, have has a crisis of faith. My crisis, in part, led me to question whether there actually was a God. I have concluded that there is, and that God created the world. I have also concluded that unlike what most Mormons believe, God is not involved in our daily lives – and certainly not to the point that some believe he is. I don’t deny that God may have intervened in the lives of some people and I don’t deny that he answers some prayers – but I see no evidence he is involved in my life nor any evidence he has ever answered my prayers. Much of what people attribute to answers to prayers is simply coincidence. I feel likewise about Satan. I also questioned whether he existed (if God didn’t exist, neither did Satan) but have concluded that he does exist. But like God, Satan is not involved in our every day lives. God doesn’t help us find the car keys Satan didn’t help us lose. For the most part, I believe what most members might attribute to the influence of Satan is little more than humans exercising free agency. That does not mean I don’t believe in evil, I do believe that people are quite capable of perpetrating evil with or without any influence of a devil.
August 30, 2013 at 1:30 am #271126Anonymous
GuestRoy wrote:Pro Satan: An aunt relayed to me that her family had a number of challenges that caused trouble and discord in the marriage. A short time later thay discovered that my Uncle was being called to an important calling. They decided that Satan was trying to keep them from this important responsibility.
So, Satan has the gift of prophecy where he can see into the immediate future and know what callings good people are going to get and strives to derail that to serve his on purpose and to oppose God’s? Why would God grant Satan a gift like prophecy? Or how could Satan take that gift under his own power to use for evil purposes where God supposedly gives the gift of prophecy to his righteous children to aid them in making his purposes unfold? It doesn’t make sense to me. I believe Satan is a construct to serve a specified purpose within a mythos just as other stories that have been created and maintained over time to serve narrative purposes to influence the story recipient to act or believe a specified way that the teller desires. That is just my opinion.
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