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July 23, 2014 at 11:45 am #209043
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GuestRecently in a leadership meeting our SP shared something he had been taught in a meeting of SPs where there was a member of the Seventy. He wanted us to be aware and to share where appropriate, and it was in light of the Kate Kelly excommunication. I don’t want to beat a dead horse, but I believe them when they say this, so here it is. The Seventy told them there is no purge underway. He said there was no direction from the top relating to Kate Kelly or anyone else, but that the presidency of the Seventy is available to SPs to consult about complex cases. The GAs will never tell the SP what to do, however, and will not attempt to influence the outcome of the council – it is a local matter. The Seventy said it is the church’s stance that it is OK to question and even disagree, that the problem arises when one attempts to convert others to his or her way of thinking and/or attempts to gain a following and referred everyone to the statement by the FP on apostasy. I know there are those who don’t believe this, and I won’t post it on the NOM site to spare myself the comments it would elicit there. My SP is a sincere believer in looking after the one and finding the lost sheep – he openly discusses ways to help those in faith crisis without using the term. I believe him and I believe the GAs when they say things like the above.
July 23, 2014 at 12:28 pm #287980Anonymous
GuestI have heard the same from my SP. And my SP is similar to yours in he is more concerned for the one, and he is a good man, so I believe him as well. July 23, 2014 at 1:01 pm #287981Anonymous
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July 23, 2014 at 1:20 pm #287982Anonymous
Guestcwald wrote:You are right, I don’t believe it.
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I knew you wouldn’t, and it’s OK to disagree.
I will say that I also believe individual GAs are just like the rest of, prone to faults. While I believe the Seventy who was speaking does believe what he taught, I am also open to the idea that some GAs might be tempted to try to influence the outcome of a DC – but I don’t believe most would. I believe them when they say they is no concerted effort from the top to purge. I might point out here that John Dehlin did meet with his SP and has had no DC, and that we never saw anything official from Rock Waterman (who is an apostate anyway IMO) and he has not said anything about having had a DC – and I’m sure he would if he’d had one. I think Waterman was trying to jump on the bandwagon of attention, and the other two were coincidental.
Evidence of a purge I do not see, and the Spirit of Truth I have felt.
July 23, 2014 at 1:37 pm #287983Anonymous
GuestI’m one of those weirdos that leans toward thinking that the decision to excommunicate KK shouldbe directed from the top. The ramifications of the decision reach far beyond the stake level. I think “attempts to gain a following” is fairly obvious but where I truly get lost in all of this is “attempts to convert others to his or her way of thinking.” That’s kind of a grey area for me. A local leader could interpret vocalizing disagreement in SS as an attempt to convert others to their way of thinking. People on both sides of an issue might interpret the act of making a comment in class as an attempt to convert others to his or her way of thinking. The anti could view the faithful’s comment as an attempt to convert others. The faithful could view the anti’s comment as an attempt to convert others. It’s very nebulous.
I might like to see it go further in being a bit more clear but the very fact that it’s being said at all is a step in the right direction. Having a seventy say “there is no purge underway” might allow cooler heads to prevail where there was any doubt. Change takes time and this is a good first step.
July 23, 2014 at 1:44 pm #287984Anonymous
GuestDarkJedi wrote:… He said there was no direction from the top relating to Kate Kelly or anyone else,… The GAs will never tell the SP what to do, however, and will not attempt to influence the outcome of the council – it is a local matter. … I believe him and I believe the GAs when they say things like the above.
This is what I don’t believe.
Even my TBM family think this is disingenuous rhetoric.
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July 23, 2014 at 1:55 pm #287985Anonymous
GuestTaking what DJ heard at face value– this is what I find a bit confusing about our church…. It is a very large, bureaucratic organization with policies upon policies and a general handbook of instructions that people generally follow very closely on most matters. Yet, there is so much local freedom on this one issue of discipline — which is something that can help, but often can really cause pain for the members.
a) I am all for local freedom, but why is the church so free on the issue of discipline, while so tight on most of the other matters?
b) Why is the church so concerned with making sure everyone knows discipline is a local matter, when we have such a strong top-down culture? And I think most people EXPECT the inspired leaders at the top to guide the church?
July 23, 2014 at 2:44 pm #287986Anonymous
Guestnibbler wrote:I’m one of those weirdos that leans toward thinking that the decision to excommunicate KK
shouldbe directed from the top. The ramifications of the decision reach far beyond the stake level. I think “attempts to gain a following” is fairly obvious but where I truly get lost in all of this is “attempts to convert others to his or her way of thinking.” That’s kind of a grey area for me. A local leader could interpret vocalizing disagreement in SS as an attempt to convert others to their way of thinking. People on both sides of an issue might interpret the act of making a comment in class as an attempt to convert others to his or her way of thinking. The anti could view the faithful’s comment as an attempt to convert others. The faithful could view the anti’s comment as an attempt to convert others. It’s very nebulous.
I might like to see it go further in being a bit more clear but the very fact that it’s being said at all is a step in the right direction. Having a seventy say “there is no purge underway” might allow cooler heads to prevail where there was any doubt. Change takes time and this is a good first step.
I was summarizing the comments, Nibbler. Perhaps a better way to have put it was attempting to convert others to your way of thinking
ANDtrying to gain a following. The gist of the comments by the SP was that it is absolutely OK to have a differing opinion and it’s even OK to share and discuss that opinion. In the discussion portion of the meeting relating to these comments, an example of a brother who spoke in SM was given – the guy supports OW and tearfully testified in the meeting that he did and that he felt sorry for Kate Kelly. No one there said a word about discipline for him – he did nothing more than share his opinion. FWIW, for my part in the discussion I encouraged everyone to become familiar with the essays and followed up by sending links to each of them. I was once again surprised at how few priesthood leaders were familiar with them – the SP was, though, and encouraged the same.
And I don’t disagree with you that perhaps the central leadership should perhaps take a bigger role n the more high profile cases. On the other hand, were it me coming before a DC, I’d really like it if it were my local leaders who I know and who know me and my family. While I do believe Kate Kelly should have been excommunicated (she met the criteria), I also believe a lesser discipline may have also sufficed – and I believe her lack of attendance influenced that.
July 23, 2014 at 2:53 pm #287987Anonymous
GuestSilentDawning wrote:Taking what DJ heard at face value– this is what I find a bit confusing about our church….
It is a very large, bureaucratic organization with policies upon policies and a general handbook of instructions that people generally follow very closely on most matters. Yet, there is so much local freedom on this one issue of discipline — which is something that can help, but often can really cause pain for the members.
a) I am all for local freedom, but why is the church so free on the issue of discipline, while so tight on most of the other matters?
b) Why is the church so concerned with making sure everyone knows discipline is a local matter, when we have such a strong top-down culture? And I think most people EXPECT the inspired leaders at the top to guide the church?
I agree with you SD that most people expect the top leaders to guide the church, and I think they do
guide. I don’t believe God expects them to micromanage or do anything beyond guide, however. This goes along with the adage that Catholicism teaches that the pope is infallible but the members don’t believe it while the LDS church teaches the prophet is not infallible but the members don’t believe it. FWIW, I’m not sure the pope or cardinals would have taken an active role with Kate Kelly, either. July 23, 2014 at 5:40 pm #287988Anonymous
GuestDark Jedi, perhaps the church is not “purging” in the excommunication since, but I know personally two women that have have had their temple recommends revoked due to private face book posts or liking the OW page. One does not even have a profile up but she has been released from her callings and will not be able to attend her daughter’s wedding in September. So I’m sorry but this just feels like more lip service from the top along with a heavy dose of plausible deniability! “We won’t intervine with local leaders desicions.” Well isn’t that great?!?! Love the double speak! July 23, 2014 at 6:03 pm #287989Anonymous
GuestThere may be a few visionaries at the top levels of leadership in the church but it still takes time to filter its way down to the lower levels. A seventy may say this today but it still takes time before local BPs or SPs can set aside their own personal beliefs to adopt a new policy. A big tent church may be completely foreign to some leaders so it takes time for them to catch the vision. Smacked wrists can help push new policy forward at a quicker pace. I guess a part of the issue is that top leaders don’t have much exposure to local leaders yanking TRs because someone liked the wrong thing on FB. No visibility, no chance to smack that wrist.
July 23, 2014 at 6:04 pm #287990Anonymous
Guestnibbler wrote:There may be a few visionaries at the top levels of leadership in the church but it still takes time to filter its way down to the lower levels. A seventy may say this today but it still takes time before local BPs or SPs can set aside their own personal beliefs to adopt a new policy. A big tent church may be completely foreign to some leaders so it takes time for them to catch the vision.
Smacked wrists can help push new policy forward at a quicker pace. I guess a part of the issue is that top leaders don’t have much exposure to local leaders yanking TRs because someone liked the wrong thing on FB. No visibility, no chance to smack that wrist.
I do agree with you Nibbler – I also think they do very little slapping of wrists anyway.
July 23, 2014 at 6:06 pm #287991Anonymous
GuestDax wrote:Dark Jedi, perhaps the church is not “purging” in the excommunication since, but I know personally two women that have have had their temple recommends revoked due to private face book posts or liking the OW page. One does not even have a profile up but she has been released from her callings and will not be able to attend her daughter’s wedding in September. So I’m sorry but this just feels like more lip service from the top along with a heavy dose of plausible deniability! “We won’t intervine with local leaders desicions.” Well isn’t that great?!?! Love the double speak!
No disrespect intended, Dax, and I believe you. Why do you think it’s coming from the top, though? I’ve seen enough local leadership roulette to make me believe these guys are quite capable of doing that on their own with no encouragement from SLC.
July 23, 2014 at 6:24 pm #287992Anonymous
GuestDarkJedi wrote:I do agree with you Nibbler – I also think they do very little slapping of wrists anyway.
Yeah, that’s for the best. It is a volunteer organization after all.
The one thing I will say is that the culture could do a better job of allowing people to ask questions. The only people I see asking the tough questions in church meetings these days are the investigators, the rest of us know better than to ask the tough questions… even though we’ve all got them.

It happened just this past Sunday, an investigator asked a question that challenged the doctrine being taught in the class. They asked in a very humble/innocent manner, they even cited some verses in the NT, it wasn’t confrontational. I was a bit saddened by the reaction. The answers stuck to relating LDS specific teachings without providing any scriptural foundation for claims being made. Unfortunately the investigator may have learned that the classroom isn’t a safe place to ask a sincere question. Perhaps they also learned that it’s not safe to ask questions to members in general.
After class I thanked them for their question and told them how helpful I thought their comments were… and it’s true. They brought up a good point.
July 23, 2014 at 6:33 pm #287993Anonymous
GuestDarkJedi wrote:…Why do you think it’s coming from the top…
1. Personal experience. Area authority instructed SPs (my brother) to make neighboring SPs aware of apostates that belonged to MS/JD groups.
2. Because I take Kate and Kate’s BP’s word when they say that Clayton and Ballard were doing leadership training in their stake the month prior, and told the leaders that OW was an apostate group and that Kate was in apostacy.
How is that not coming from the top?
I would like to hear Clayton and Ballard come out and say they had nothing to do with this.
Won’t happen. Why? Because they have too much integrity to flat out lie about their involvement, which they would have to do to support this ludicrous claim that this is just a local issue and the 70/Q15 had nothing to do with it and were not involved in the instigation of the process.
Sure. They will hang the local leaders out to dry, and continue to blame the locals for corporation’s mistakes and problems, but to say Clayton/Ballard did not instigate or influence or have any part of this, is ludicrous and terribly disingenuous, and I don’t care how honorable your SP might be. One has to do a hell of a lot of mental gymnastics to believe something as absurd as that.
CHURCH….JUST TELL THE TRUTH! Call a spade a spade and stop obfuscating facts.
And, I actually understand why the church would do such a thing. I think it was foolish. I think it was culty. But I understand. I’m just frustrated they are so dishonest about it.
Now, I’ll take a break from the site for the rest of the day.
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