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June 16, 2015 at 6:05 am #209951
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GuestHi, all. I haven’t been on here in a while. I made a conscious decision to try and go on a “Mormon Media cleanse” for a while. This thread was spurred by the Boise Rescue Thread & Excommunication Thread.
On this site I’ve seen a lot of conversations about apostasy and apostates and what justifies excommunication. It got me thinking…I truly despise the word “apostate” or “apostasy.” It makes me uncomfortable when people use it to refer to others/the actions of others and is especially worse when a general authority (example, Elder Oaks) uses it to refer to individuals, even in the hypothetical. It’s as if they’re evoking their authority and power to assign the worst identity to someone.
Does anyone else also experience this?
Why is it that even when I read that someone has been labeled an apostate does it make me flinch? Perhaps it’s a generational thing. Growing up, I was essentially taught via home, church, and seminary, that an apostate is pretty much the worst thing you can be. You are on Satan’s side and you are leading others astray. Of course, only God knows your heart, but you’re on pre-transformation Alma the Younger territory. It’s a title that carries a lot of weight. This was drilled into me. More than a description of actions, it’s a shame-trigger word. The title alone can bury a person’s identity, views, reasoning, and even humanity to the eyes of their community. Once someone is an apostate, it is as if they are stripped of their humanity. They’re dehumanized. They’re no longer a person. They’re a danger.
Anyway, my question to you is, what is apostasy in the Mormon Culture? What’s its role in our church? What power does the word carry? I’ve never heard it referenced with the same kind of implications outside of the LDS culture. I feel like the “apostate” label in our day is fairly particular to Mormonism, although I could be wrong.
The truth is, I think many of these so-called “apostates” truly are spurring positive change in the Church. Clearly, Kate Kelly and her “movement” has made an impact on the Church’s efforts to be more inclusive of women’s voices.
June 16, 2015 at 10:53 am #300919Anonymous
GuestFor God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. June 16, 2015 at 2:40 pm #300920Anonymous
Guestuniversity wrote:On this site I’ve seen a lot of conversations about apostasy and apostates and what justifies excommunication. It got me thinking…I truly despise the word “apostate” or “apostasy.” It makes me uncomfortable when people use it to refer to others/the actions of others and is especially worse when a general authority (example, Elder Oaks) uses it to refer to individuals, even in the hypothetical.
It’s as if they’re evoking their authority and power to assign the worst identity to someone…Why is it that even when I read that someone has been labeled an apostate does it make me flinch?…Growing up, I was essentially taught via home, church, and seminary, that an apostate is pretty much the worst thing you can be. You are on Satan’s side and you are leading others astray…Anyway, my question to you is, what is apostasy in the Mormon Culture? What’s its role in our church?What power does the word carry?… I feel like the “apostate” label in our day is fairly particular to Mormonism, although I could be wrong… I have heard the term “apostate” used by Muslims and Jehovah’s Witnesses in a similar way to how it is currently used in the LDS Church. Personally I think it is mostly just another example of the cultish us-versus-them thinking that is so prevalent in the Church. Basically the Church will tolerate members that believe something significantly different from the orthodox LDS doctrines as long as they keep quiet about it but as soon as anyone openly disagrees with the Church it is typically not going to be received very well in the Church. That’s what I think this apostasy label is mostly about, trying to enforce strict boundaries around what the official doctrines are supposed to be and expecting members to go along with what they are told without resistance.
June 16, 2015 at 4:13 pm #300921Anonymous
GuestQuote:“one who forsakes his religion or faith,” from Old French apostate (Modern French apostat) and directly from Late Latin apostata, from Greek apostasia “defection, desertion, rebellion,” from apostenai “to defect,” literally “to stand off,” from apo- “away from” (see apo-) + stenai “to stand.” Used in non-religious situations (politics, etc.) from mid-14c. –etymologyonline.com
The key factor in a Mormon sense is opposition. I think it’s useful to remember that the Church has suffered a great deal from former members who have left and provided significant opposition: Warren Parish (led opposition group that forced the Church to abandon Kirtland), George Hinkle (whose betrayal of JS, led to the Liberty Jail imprisonment), John C Bennett (Apostate Extraordinaire), William Law (Expositor), Ann Eliza Webb Young (who wrote an expose on Mormon polygamy called “Wife No. 19” after divorcing Brigham Young), more recently, Jerald and Sandra Tanner (researchers, writers, founders of Utah Lighthouse Ministry), and most recently, a sort of “crowd”-driven approach of ex-Mormon bloggers, posters, and youtube amateurs who unabashedly attack the Church, its history, its doctrines, and its people in the public domain.
Depending on your perspective, many of the people above can be viewed either as truth-speaking sincere heroes, or as active opposition to the cause, bringing unfair judgment down on the Church and its people. I have no problem with the term “apostate” when it comes to this type of opposition. Actually, I think it is appropriate.
The issue is more with the over-use of the term. I’m not an apostate. I just no longer believe (in the Church or in God). But I will say that I have never had anyone refer to me as an apostate either. I think there is a tendency for the disaffected (like us) to assign ourselves to the label of apostate, even when the Church means someone else.
I bring this all up, because I think there is something we can do individually in order to avoid being associated with apostasy: that is not to be an apostate. IMO, I think it’s up to us to be careful not to become associated with that side of defection… at least not unless that is exactly what we intend.
June 16, 2015 at 4:38 pm #300922Anonymous
GuestI have a few thoughts on this subject. First “the great apostasy”. I read a few books on the great apostasy and the compromises that were made as the early Christian church grew. Funny thing was that when I began to study our own history more deeply I began to realize that we too had made compromises and adjustments. It gave me more empathy with the early christians. When JS instituted the temple endowment was he introducing a corrupted apostate form of Mason worship? Was he restoring an anchient early christian or pre-christian rite? Or was he receiving inspiration/revelation from his environment and innovating? How is that so different than the changes made by Christendom over the centuries? Was it apostasy for Peter to allow the uncircumcised to join the church (remember that Jesus never authorized this)? Paul sure seemed to be blazing his own trail across Europe and making his personal opinions and viewpoints into religious doctrine. He was not an apostle in the “witness” sense and he was quite a maverick – even challenging and chastising Peter. Could Paul have been excommunicated for apostasy for teaching his opinions as doctrine and for pushing church reforms faster than it was comfortable making them?
DevilsAdvocate wrote:I have heard the term “apostate” used by Muslims and Jehovah’s Witnesses in a similar way to how it is currently used in the LDS Church.
Yes, these are churches that are very similar to ours in that they are fairly rigid lifestyle “heritage” churches. I remember Brian Johnson saying that he had been to some recovering from JW websites and it was just like what you see on the Mormon side.
university wrote:It’s a title that carries a lot of weight. This was drilled into me. More than a description of actions, it’s a shame-trigger word. The title alone can bury a person’s identity, views, reasoning, and even humanity to the eyes of their community. Once someone is an apostate, it is as if they are stripped of their humanity. They’re dehumanized. They’re no longer a person. They’re a danger.
I agree. Use of that word changes the game. And when it is leveled there are not very many defenses against it. In a way it is declaring the person to be dead to the community.
In one sense, I recognise and support an organizations need to determine its own boundaries. “Doing [such and such] crosses our community line.”
On the other hand, when we are dealing with real people with lives of service in the church and loving families – are we not doing spiritual violence to them severing them so?
My big sister had a Women’s Studies professor in college that helped her reconcile some of the contradictions in church. She told her that the imperfect church structures/leaders are as earthen vessels that nevertheless carry living water. This woman was later excommunicated as part of the September 6 for compiling essays about women’s history in the church into a book and publishing it. Truly interesting that what she was exed for doing such a small thing – seemingly a far cry from the more active church oppostition that is the standard for excommunication today. I remember that one of the essays was about how RS sisters used to bless and annoint a woman during child birth and that function was gradually restricted and then ceased all together…fascinating stuff. Anyway, that is not terribly different than Claudia Bushman advising women to perform blessings of faith in their own homes … blasphemy? apostasy? diminishing and ussurping the role of the priesthood?
When this mentor college professor was excommunicated it crushed my sisters spirit of faith in the church.
Anyway, I am thankful that it seems that excommunication for apostasy is used much more sparingly and with more consistent criteria than it has been in times past.
June 16, 2015 at 5:29 pm #300923Anonymous
GuestIn the scriptures, apostasy refers to “falling away,” deteriorating or corrupting the purity of gospel principles. Honestly, that’s not even remotely how it’s used in the modern church. If you look at those early church members who were excommunicated (back in the days of Joseph and Brigham), it was almost always over personal loyalties, similar to people settling their differences with a duel; people were highly sensitive to personal slights. While the thin-skinned part doesn’t seem to be an issue anymore, SPs and bishops still follow this model of identifying apostates, although it’s a very flawed model and honestly doesn’t have a whole lot to do with actual apostasy.
If you remember Chad Hardy, he was asked by his SP “If Pres. Monson asked you to take down your site (he was the one selling shirtless missionary calendars), would you?” He said no (although his reasons weren’t that bad – he said he kept his much worse business partner in check), and he was ex’d for essentially disloyalty, theoretical unwillingness to do what he was told by church leaders
if they told him to do that, which they hadn’t. Many of the excommunications in the last year have been that same “loyalty” test: would you remove your web site, take down you post, cancel your speaking engagements, stop publishing your book? So, on the one hand, you can say that apostasy is doing something that’s bad PR for the church, but it’s also refusing to blindly obey church leaders (many of whom are lower level folks who don’t even know what they are talking about) which is seen as disloyalty, and disloyalty = apostasy in the de facto definition today. And of course, people like Denver Snuffer and Rock Waterman who are saying that the church is apostate or off track, that it’s lost its roots or is Pharasaical, well if they were speaking in General Conference, that would be totally OK. In fact, that’s essentially what Pres. Uchtdorf said in the Priesthood session, that church members and leaders get hung up on numbers and are hypocrites rather than followers of Christ. Add to that the fact that censorship is also harmful to PR, it makes the church look weak and like it has something to hide, but nobody’s exing Otterson for it. Paul Toscano said (rightly) that the Q12 had caused more people to leave the church than he ever did. Obviously that’s going to be true given their role in the church. But it was an astute point.
At the end of the day, church’s ball, church’s rules. They get to define apostasy, and they can ex whomever they like.
June 16, 2015 at 6:17 pm #300924Anonymous
Guesthawkgrrrl wrote:If you remember Chad Hardy, he was asked by his SP “If Pres. Monson asked you to take down your site (he was the one selling shirtless missionary calendars), would you?” He said no (although his reasons weren’t that bad – he said he kept his much worse business partner in check), and he was ex’d for essentially disloyalty, theoretical unwillingness to do what he was told by church leaders
if they told him to do that, which they hadn’t. Many of the excommunications in the last year have been that same “loyalty” test: would you remove your web site, take down you post, cancel your speaking engagements, stop publishing your book? So, on the one hand, you can say that apostasy is doing something that’s bad PR for the church, but it’s also refusing to blindly obey church leaders (many of whom are lower level folks who don’t even know what they are talking about) which is seen as disloyalty, and disloyalty = apostasy in the de facto definition today. I think this loyalty test thing has been used more than we think, and the term “apostasy” has been used as a kindof whipping post to discourage others from questioning the status quo. It is disturbing to me when the Q15 initiate the disciplinary action, but make it appear the action started at the local level. This seems dishonest to me. It is appropriate for the Q15 to mislead and hide, even lie, for the sake of PR and the “image” of the church? Can anyone address this better for me here?
I have read several things Elder Oaks said about the purposes of the church, the doctrines, and loyalty to the brethren. It is a general teaching (in my neck of the woods) to hear it said: “If you follow the brethren, even if they are wrong, you will be blessed for it.” This is an ALARMING doctrine to me, because it mirrors what cults do. Can anyone address this better for me as well?
With regards to the original post: yes,…the term apostasy has been stigmatized into a horrible word, and its use, IMHO, has been smeared to include all kinds of things, including but not limited to disloyalty.
June 16, 2015 at 6:36 pm #300925Anonymous
GuestI don’t think it is a uniquely mormon thing, but it is going to be more of a “thing” with any group that claims divine authority like the Catholic church. Like HG mentioned, it has something to do with loyalty and supporting the authority, and their ball/their rules and it seems to become a way to handle someone who breaks the rules…because…what else will they do to enforce their authority.
Personally, I do not know what it accomplishes, other than to be able to draw lines in the sand so the position the authority is taking is clearly known to people inside and outside. It clarifies what they disagree with (even if they later decide to agree with it).
June 16, 2015 at 8:01 pm #300926Anonymous
GuestQuote:It is disturbing to me when the Q15 initiate the disciplinary action, but make it appear the action started at the local level. This seems dishonest to me. It is appropriate for the Q15 to mislead and hide, even lie, for the sake of PR and the “image” of the church? Can anyone address this better for me here?
I’m not convinced that the Q15 are directly behind disciplinary actions as people often think they are. I’ve only arrived at that conclusion after watching some of these actions very closely. Here’s why:
1) they don’t
have toget involved. There are plenty of lower leaders who see it as their patriotic duty to root out heretics. 2) in all cases I’ve seen, the person who is ex’d has a lack of relationship with the local leader in charge of the DC. This often happens when leadership changes and now the new person doesn’t know them or feels differently about them.
3) because of this patriotic tendency, dog whistle politics are very effective and often the only thing needed (no direct involvement) to whip up an aspiring local leader to action. On the downside of this one, it’s my opinion that the Q15 are divided on what constitutes an excommunicable offense, and unfortunately, they all have access to dog whistles and can get their own personal hobby horse messages out to those who are listening for the signal. Leadership roulette ensues. Good leadership is doing the littlest possible to achieve the outcome you desire. That’s also good engineering. Don’t get involved if someone lower down the chain will do it for you.
June 16, 2015 at 8:07 pm #300927Anonymous
Guesthawkgrrrl wrote:Good leadership is doing the littlest possible to achieve the outcome you desire. That’s also good engineering. Don’t get involved if someone lower down the chain will do it for you.
Sounds like plausible deniability.June 16, 2015 at 8:14 pm #300928Anonymous
Guesthawkgrrrl wrote:2) in all cases I’ve seen, the person who is ex’d has a lack of relationship with the local leader in charge of the DC. This often happens when leadership changes and now the new person doesn’t know them or feels differently about them.
Now there arose up a new king over Egypt, which knew not Joseph.
There’s nothing new under the sun.
June 16, 2015 at 8:24 pm #300929Anonymous
GuestA month ago, a friend of ours who is a recently released Bishop, said my husband was an apostate for teaching our family things that led others to a faith crisis. Hearing the word used towards you or your actions really stings. I understand the fact that the leaders get to set the rules, I follow the rules of my gym. I don’t roller skate in the basketball area, I don’t do high dives off the side of the pool and so on.
However in our modern religion the flagrant use of apostasy creates a very un-Christlike problem. We are still struggling with the outcomes of the earlier choice of apostasy 180 years later.
As I watch it, apostasy used to be a turn around type of thing. Now days – just easier to move on. Let them have the sandbox. It’s kind of Scarlet Letter thing, the role of who is the good guy and who is the bad changes.
On an ecclesiastic level, it would be nice if something instead of apostasy and excommunication were on the table.
June 16, 2015 at 8:29 pm #300930Anonymous
GuestApostate is a stage 3 word. There is utility for those in that stage. It is how stage 3 works. June 16, 2015 at 9:21 pm #300931Anonymous
GuestI think the church does not use the definition of apostasy isn’t as narrow as it is defined in the world
Quote:apostate – A person who renounces a religious or political belief or principle.
But it is interesting to look at what follows the definition
Quote:synonyms: dissenter, defector, deserter, traitor, backslider, turncoat; nonconformist; schismatic; archaicheretic; rarerecusant, recreant, tergiversator
antonyms: follower
But I think many are called apostate in our church that other religions define as a heretic
Quote:heretic – a person believing in or practicing religious heresy (heresy is “belief or opinion contrary to orthodox religious, especially Christian, doctrine”).
But when did the Mormon’s ever take over words (i.e. modesty) and teach them where the members don’t even define the word the same as the world? Or when did a general conference talk say that the English Thy, Thou, etc. were formal
when linguistics say it is the other way aroundhttps://www.lds.org/general-conference/1993/04/the-language-of-prayer?lang=eng ” class=”bbcode_url”> https://www.lds.org/general-conference/1993/04/the-language-of-prayer?lang=eng Quote:An archaic set of second-person singular pronouns is thou, thee, thyself, thy, thine. They were used as a familiar form?
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/English_personal_pronounshttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/English_personal_pronouns” class=”bbcode_url”> June 16, 2015 at 9:28 pm #300932Anonymous
GuestGood post, LH. You don’t hear Heretic in our church much, do you? I don’t. It’s believer or apostate or jack. (actually I don’t hear jack-mormon much anymore).
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