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June 30, 2015 at 8:59 pm #210004
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GuestI just came across this article: http://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2015/06/gay-marriage-decision-polygamy-119469.html#.VZL_1flVhBc ” class=”bbcode_url”> http://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2015/06/gay-marriage-decision-polygamy-119469.html#.VZL_1flVhBc It’s basically saying that now that the SCOTUS has opened up the way for same-sex marriage, it is now time to legalize polygamy. The article’s stance is that consenting adults should be able to make those decisions about their own marriage, and the SCOTUS has made it possible to argue in favor of polygamy.
I’m grateful that the courts have opened things up, and my wife was irate that the SCOTUS decision didn’t bother me. I also feel like polygamy was a disgusting practice. However, this article made me start thinking about what kind of position the church (as an organization) would be in if there was a push to legalize polygamy.
:think: It would be hard for the church to come out vocally against it, without sounding very hypocritical. The manifesto doesn’t exactly condemn polygamy. So, in order to take a stand against it, they would have to come out with some language that isn’t as open to interpretation, which would mean turning their back on our polygamist past, similar to the article about the priesthood ban for blacks. Or, would the church actually support it, or say nothing at all? Just something interesting to think about…
June 30, 2015 at 9:16 pm #301802Anonymous
GuestPS: I suppose I just find it strange that our church leaders have taken this outspoken, moral “high ground” when it comes to gay marriage, after the debacle of polygamy that hangs over us from the past. It just feels like we’re still trying so hard to forget about polygamy, that as a people, we’ve become hyper-sensitive to anything sex related. EVERYTHING is taboo. June 30, 2015 at 9:27 pm #301803Anonymous
GuestHoly Cow wrote:I just came across this article:
However, this article made me start thinking about what kind of position the church (as an organization) would be in if there was a push to legalize polygamy.:think: It would be hard for the church to come out vocally against it, without sounding very hypocritical. The manifesto doesn’t exactly condemn polygamy. So, in order to take a stand against it, they would have to come out with some language that isn’t as open to interpretation, which would mean turning their back on our polygamist past, similar to the article about the priesthood ban for blacks. Or, would the church actually support it, or say nothing at all? Just something interesting to think about…
In my opinion, a terrible one. The manifesto didn’t condemn it in 1890, and neither did the essays in 2014. My hope is that the SCOTUS decision, whether it was right or not to legislate from the bench, will be the catalyst for taking polygamy out of the “doctrine” category and placing it finally, and firmly for all of mortality, in the “abandoned practice” category.June 30, 2015 at 9:33 pm #301804Anonymous
GuestAnn wrote:My hope is that the SCOTUS decision, whether it was right or not to legislate from the bench, will be the catalyst for taking polygamy out of the “doctrine” category and placing it finally, and firmly for all of mortality, in the “abandoned practice” category.
AMEN!:clap: (Sorry, is clapping irreverent?)
June 30, 2015 at 10:49 pm #301805Anonymous
GuestAnn wrote:Holy Cow wrote:I just came across this article:
However, this article made me start thinking about what kind of position the church (as an organization) would be in if there was a push to legalize polygamy.:think: It would be hard for the church to come out vocally against it, without sounding very hypocritical. The manifesto doesn’t exactly condemn polygamy. So, in order to take a stand against it, they would have to come out with some language that isn’t as open to interpretation, which would mean turning their back on our polygamist past, similar to the article about the priesthood ban for blacks. Or, would the church actually support it, or say nothing at all? Just something interesting to think about…
In my opinion, a terrible one. The manifesto didn’t condemn it in 1890, and neither did the essays in 2014. My hope is that the SCOTUS decision, whether it was right or not to legislate from the bench, will be the catalyst for taking polygamy out of the “doctrine” category and placing it finally, and firmly for all of mortality, in the “abandoned practice” category.
I had not thought about the church being faced with polygamy being legalized might prod it to actually say it is not doctrine. Interesting.June 30, 2015 at 10:59 pm #301806Anonymous
GuestHonestly, I think the specter of polygamy hangs over this whole issue for the Church leadership and has influenced their actions and stances greatly. I think without that specter, their language would be different now. Not approving, but different. I think there is no logical way to continue to outlaw polygamy, legally, now that same-sex marriage has been approved. I think its only a matter of time now – and the restrictions will be age and consent based (including incest), which is how I believe it should be. I also think it will be interesting how many people on both sides of the same-sex marriage divide will be united against polygamy being legalized – and how many of them won’t see or accept the irony.
I would love another official renunciation of polygamy in our time, but I don’t expect it to be applied retroactively. I actually think that would be more difficult than ceasing to openly oppose same-sex marriage – since that is in the process of happening already. Seriously, the churches calling for active opposition to the ruling do not include the LDS Church. Baby steps, I know, but that one is important.
June 30, 2015 at 11:06 pm #301807Anonymous
GuestQuote:Honestly, I think the specter of polygamy hangs over this whole issue for the Church leadership and has influenced their actions and stances greatly. I think without that specter, their language would be different now. Not approving, but different.
Honestly, I think this is exactly why we climbed into bed with the evangelicals and the religious right to oppose same sex marriage (not just our leaders’ bent toward conservative politics). It’s the desire to distance ourselves from a shameful polygamous past. “See how much we love monogamy and normal traditional marriage?? See? See? We are normal, we swear!”
June 30, 2015 at 11:31 pm #301808Anonymous
GuestPlease don’t tell me that church people will start suggesting this is God’s hand in things so that we can restore the teachings of Joseph and Brigham with such things like Quote:The Lord works in mysterious ways.
I hope we keep the door closed tight on polygamy while the country revisits marriage rights.
July 1, 2015 at 2:11 am #301809Anonymous
Guesthawkgrrrl wrote:we climbed into bed with the evangelicals
queue in the Beavis and Butthead giggle.Pardon my bad attempt at humor, but between SCOTUS decision and stresses at work – I am ready for a good laugh.
July 1, 2015 at 3:12 am #301810Anonymous
GuestHeber13 wrote:Please don’t tell me that church people will start suggesting this is God’s hand in things so that we can restore the teachings of Joseph and Brigham with such things like
Quote:The Lord works in mysterious ways.
I hope we keep the door closed tight on polygamy while the country revisits marriage rights.
Bleh! I hadn’t thought about it that way. If there polygamy does start to get pushed in the courts, I could totally see members falling all over themselves trying to use it as evidence that we were right from the beginning, just like they do with things like smoking. But instead of, “The church taught that smoking was bad long before the rest of the world knew it was unhealthy,” it would be, “The church taught that polygamy was ordained of God long before the Supreme Court approved of it.”
I’d rather see polygamy stay where it belongs, in the past.
July 1, 2015 at 6:15 am #301811Anonymous
GuestOld-Timer wrote:Honestly, I think the specter of polygamy hangs over this whole issue for the Church leadership and has influenced their actions and stances greatly. I think without that specter, their language would be different now. Not approving, but different.
I think there is no logical way to continue to outlaw polygamy, legally, now that same-sex marriage has been approved. I think its only a matter of time now – and the restrictions will be age and consent based (including incest), which is how I believe it should be. I also think it will be interesting how many people on both sides of the same-sex marriage divide will be united against polygamy being legalized – and how many of them won’t see or accept the irony.
I would love another official renunciation of polygamy in our time, but I don’t expect it to be applied retroactively. I actually think that would be more difficult than ceasing to openly oppose same-sex marriage – since that is in the process of happening already. Seriously, the churches calling for active opposition to the ruling do not include the LDS Church. Baby steps, I know, but that one is important.
If you’re okay with speculating, I’m curious to know how you think the approach to gay marriage would be different without the polygamy backdrop.
July 1, 2015 at 12:37 pm #301812Anonymous
GuestI have little time this morning, but I think the concern over gay marriage leading to the legalization of polygamy was a driving force behind the intensity with which the Church leadership approached the arguments. I think they would have been less inclined to be so vocal and “out front” without that concern. Don’t get me wrong; I think they still would have opposed it. I don’t think there is any way around that. I just think they were willing to be a much more visible, forceful actor because of the ramifications of polygamy being the next domino to fall.
July 1, 2015 at 12:57 pm #301813Anonymous
GuestOld-Timer wrote:I have little time this morning, but I think the concern over gay marriage leading to the legalization of polygamy was a driving force behind the intensity with which the Church leadership approached the arguments. I think they would have been less inclined to be so vocal and “out front” without that concern.
Don’t get me wrong; I think they still would have opposed it. I don’t think there is any way around that. I just think they were willing to be a much more visible, forceful actor because of the ramifications of polygamy being the next domino to fall.
You may very well be right. Don’t know if I have a strong inclination either way. Not sure if I feel it matters. I know the 15 are smart men, but even outside revelation they may receive, many other smart men (and women) have misread things when they are insulated a bit. I study business management and it is a VERY common (almost the norm) for the CEO to be so insulated from reality that they make colossal blunders.July 1, 2015 at 1:13 pm #301814Anonymous
GuestFrankly I think this is a slippery slope argument, and we could just as well make the same slippery slope argument about being allowed to marry our siblings or goats. Just my point of view, I don’t think there is any move toward legalizing polygamy. It would be interesting to see the SCOTUS ruling on it if it did happen, though – I do agree that the current justices (supposing the make up of the court is the same) would have a hard time not legalizing polygamy in view of the gay marriage ruling. As a side note, that’s my issue with the gay marriage ruling – I’m not upset at gay marriage being legalized at all (I support gay marriage), but I do not believe it was the Supreme Court’s place to do so. (And in keeping with forum guidelines that’s all I’m going to say on that subject – it’s bad enough we discuss religion here, politics is too much .)
July 1, 2015 at 1:30 pm #301815Anonymous
GuestDarkJedi wrote:it’s bad enough we discuss religion here, politics is too much
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