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March 20, 2016 at 10:12 pm #210632
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GuestI went to this last night and really enjoyed it. I have been saying the new message I would like to see the church teach is not “come because it’s the only true church with authority and you have to”, but more like “here is some practical religion to help improve your life right now”. I love when I hear messages like the latter. And that is what was taught last night. The themes were: heritage, service, family, overcoming trials, redemption, etc. I wrote about it in a blog post here. http://www.churchistrue.com/blog/beauty-for-ashes-provo-city-center-youth-cultural-celebration/ In my view of the gospel, I don’t have motivations some people do for engaging in the LDS church, ie its exclusive truth claims. Some wonder what good is the church if you take that away.
Quote:The evening perfectly illustrated why I love being a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. I have heard from a lot of Ex-Mormons that see no value in the church, outside of its truth claims. They claim “the church has nothing to offer that you couldn’t get out of a secular organization.” I couldn’t more strongly disagree, and last night’s event could be Exhibit A. That assertion may sound right in theory, but it just doesn’t hold up in the real world. The community, the values, the focus on service, the strength of our youth, the common desire to worship God. I don’t believe you can replicate this in any secular organization, and I will be so bold to include no other church on the face of the earth.
March 21, 2016 at 2:05 am #310184Anonymous
Guestchurchistrue wrote:the common
desire to worship God. I don’t believe you can replicate this in any secular organizationReally going out on a limb there.
🙂 :angel: I don’t know quite what to say. I’ll both congratulate you on having a nice, inspiring evening and defend the ex-mormons a little.
churchistrue wrote:I have heard from a lot of Ex-Mormons that see no value in the church, outside of its truth claims. They claim “the church has nothing to offer that you couldn’t get out of a secular organization.”
Could this represent someone’s truth? I believe it can but that’s because I don’t believe that the church works for everyone. It may work for you and me but that doesn’t mean it will work for everyone. The notion that it works for everyone feels like an echo to “it’s the only true church with authority and you have to.”
churchistrue wrote:That assertion may sound right in theory, but it just doesn’t hold up in the real world.
I’m beating the dead horse here but… your real world. It doesn’t hold up in your real world. Could it hold up in someone else’s real world?
churchistrue wrote:I don’t believe you can replicate this in any secular organization, and I will be so bold to include no other church on the face of the earth.
I’m sure everyone feels that way about their church, otherwise they’d be attending a different church. Plus that’s your opinion, other people will have theirs.
churchistrue wrote:The community, the values, the focus on service, the strength of our youth, the common desire to worship God.
It takes a village and the church can be a good village. Outside the MorCor nonmember neighbors and family members also make up a part of the community and contribute towards the values of the rising generation.
Service– I’ve heard people make some sound arguments that service in the church is too self serving. My opinion, service is service. Missionary tradition– I hear from people in all camps that would absolutely love it if our missionary program was more service oriented. The peace corps might have us beat in ticking all the boxes you mention. Pioneer heritage– As a convert this one never did much for me. Traditions can only take you so far. E.g. I wonder how Abraham would have turned out had he listened to the traditions of his father. March 21, 2016 at 8:51 am #310185Anonymous
GuestIt sounds like you had a fantastic time. I love those soul soaring moments. I don’t however share your conclusions.
Quote:the common desire to worship God
As a one time full on orthodox person I might concur with some of your assessments but a couple of them actually embarrass me, and would have then. I have never believed that other people in other churches don’t have a common desire to worship God. I grew up in a strong Catholic area, in my time there, they were devoted to God as he had been taught to them. Even the secular society around us was deeply influenced by it. They set their calendars by Catholic calendars and respected their worship as much as they did.
Quote:the focus on service
It was while I was growing up that my Catholic boss pointed out to me that our church didn’t have anything close to the Catholic Charities. She was correct. We didn’t even have a welfare square type deal as we know it – until my teens. Yes as a church we had rallied to send humanitarian aid during WW2 but after that it was back to caring for ourselves only. I know this because my husbands uncle was the first “head of Welfare Square” as it now functions. Our previous efforts were LDS to LDS. Bishops storehouse type stuff.
Quote:the strength of our youth
Over the past 15 years – my kids have associated with Evangelical kids. They attended a unique public school where 90% of the student body, and most of the teaching staff, were practicing Evangelicals. Later my kids joined a local Christian theater performing group – again 90% evangelical. Those kids are strong in their faith. Mormon kids don’t usually pray over their food in a restaurant. These kids do. They know their bible, etc. Every one of them worked hard, were gregarious, virtuous, reliable. By LDS standards they were “Mormon Teens” if you could call it that. A perfect example is from my daughters senior trip. The school takes kids back east. Each year it varies where back east, but their particular year they ended up in Boston. Their bus dropped them off to visit the grounds of the Old North Church (You know the Paul Revere Church). As they were getting ready to board the bus one of the kids realized a church service was do up in within the hour. The kids asked if they could stay and respectfully attend. The bus driver was stunned. No other tour group had asked for this. By the end of the tour, he was a nearly converted Christian thanks to a group of Evangelical kids with one Mormon in tow (my daughter).In short I disagree with your final conclusion
Quote:I will be so bold to include no other church on the face of the earth.
I come from convert stock. My mom was the only member, but her parents and family were noble, honest, hard working, charitable, considerate, neighborly, and clean living. Though they didn’t church – they honored The Divine. My grandparents were, even as I was growing up LDS, my greatest example of true Christendom in action. As LDS people we are so busy being LDS we rarely have time to neighbor, to slow down and connect with other humans, or to be lights in a way that many need. We are so busy being list checkers and church only do-gooders we don’t have time for much else. Unless it’s participating in community service the church sets up for us.
So no our church does do good, it does create much positive, but it doesn’t hold the corner on the market. We have a long way to go before we can love as He admonished us to do. Until then I choose to set aside the comparison lists. Rather take up Joseph’s call to find “Good and True where ever it may be.”
March 21, 2016 at 3:57 pm #310186Anonymous
GuestMom3, You explained this so beautifully. Thank you.
March 21, 2016 at 9:08 pm #310187Anonymous
Guestmom3 wrote:It sounds like you had a fantastic time. I love those soul soaring moments. I don’t however share your conclusions.
Quote:the common desire to worship God
As a one time full on orthodox person I might concur with some of your assessments but a couple of them actually embarrass me, and would have then. I have never believed that other people in other churches don’t have a common desire to worship God. I grew up in a strong Catholic area, in my time there, they were devoted to God as he had been taught to them. Even the secular society around us was deeply influenced by it. They set their calendars by Catholic calendars and respected their worship as much as they did.
Quote:the focus on service
It was while I was growing up that my Catholic boss pointed out to me that our church didn’t have anything close to the Catholic Charities. She was correct. We didn’t even have a welfare square type deal as we know it – until my teens. Yes as a church we had rallied to send humanitarian aid during WW2 but after that it was back to caring for ourselves only. I know this because my husbands uncle was the first “head of Welfare Square” as it now functions. Our previous efforts were LDS to LDS. Bishops storehouse type stuff.
Quote:the strength of our youth
Over the past 15 years – my kids have associated with Evangelical kids. They attended a unique public school where 90% of the student body, and most of the teaching staff, were practicing Evangelicals. Later my kids joined a local Christian theater performing group – again 90% evangelical. Those kids are strong in their faith. Mormon kids don’t usually pray over their food in a restaurant. These kids do. They know their bible, etc. Every one of them worked hard, were gregarious, virtuous, reliable. By LDS standards they were “Mormon Teens” if you could call it that. A perfect example is from my daughters senior trip. The school takes kids back east. Each year it varies where back east, but their particular year they ended up in Boston. Their bus dropped them off to visit the grounds of the Old North Church (You know the Paul Revere Church). As they were getting ready to board the bus one of the kids realized a church service was do up in within the hour. The kids asked if they could stay and respectfully attend. The bus driver was stunned. No other tour group had asked for this. By the end of the tour, he was a nearly converted Christian thanks to a group of Evangelical kids with one Mormon in tow (my daughter).In short I disagree with your final conclusion
Quote:I will be so bold to include no other church on the face of the earth.
I come from convert stock. My mom was the only member, but her parents and family were noble, honest, hard working, charitable, considerate, neighborly, and clean living. Though they didn’t church – they honored The Divine. My grandparents were, even as I was growing up LDS, my greatest example of true Christendom in action. As LDS people we are so busy being LDS we rarely have time to neighbor, to slow down and connect with other humans, or to be lights in a way that many need. We are so busy being list checkers and church only do-gooders we don’t have time for much else. Unless it’s participating in community service the church sets up for us.
So no our church does do good, it does create much positive, but it doesn’t hold the corner on the market. We have a long way to go before we can love as He admonished us to do. Until then I choose to set aside the comparison lists. Rather take up Joseph’s call to find “Good and True where ever it may be.”
My opinion is that the sum total of those, not any one, is what sets Mormonism up as being unique, in my mind.
The comparison to other churches, I was bursting with Mormon pride and probably overstated my position. Sure, I agree truth and beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and sure others might see their religion meeting those needs more consistently or at a higher level than LDS. I will agree to disagree on that one if push comes to shove.
The comparison to secular organizations, I stand by my assertion. Go ahead and toss out “common desire to worship God”, and I still don’t see a secular organization providing those tangible benefits that the LDS church does.
March 21, 2016 at 9:46 pm #310188Anonymous
GuestQuote:I was bursting with Mormon pride and probably overstated my position.
:clap: I so get that. My moments are different but I have plenty of those I can point to. To have tribe pride is a gift and an honor.Quote:The comparison to secular organizations, I still don’t see a secular organization providing those tangible benefits that the LDS church does.
I would agree, probably not any more. But there was time and place were organizations that did provide much of those things. My husband works for Hewlett Packard. During it’s hey-day, there was a phrase that described it “The HP Way”. You can find books and articles still reveling in it’s unique brand of employment. Not only did it create technologies, it was philanthropic, kind, encouraging, familial, and much more. All of that was long before the ideas of corporate community service and what not became buzz words. The caveat that sets it apart is a person had to be hired, you couldn’t just start showing up and get roped in, that is different than a religious community.
As to our differences on the beauty of religions I will stand with Elder Renlund’s recent tweet
Quote:We can stand firm in our beliefs and have a loving relationship with those who hold differing opinions. It is never an either-or choice.
I love your zeal and pride for the church. And I knew when I responded I might cause some waves, I also knew that if one of my non-LDS friends began to push against the things you list, I would stand by my tribe with both feet firmly in place. I hope your zeal finds a way to help the church grow to it’s best potential. So many are hurting and do not feel the joy you felt. Too many rejected, dismissed, misunderstood. They wish they could feel pride or a sense of peace but it doesn’t come. It is for them that my zeal is fueled from.
March 21, 2016 at 10:35 pm #310189Anonymous
Guestchurchistrue wrote:My opinion is that the sum total of those, not any one, is what sets Mormonism up as being unique, in my mind.
The comparison to other churches, I was bursting with Mormon pride and probably overstated my position. Sure, I agree truth and beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and sure others might see their religion meeting those needs more consistently or at a higher level than LDS. I will agree to disagree on that one if push comes to shove.
The comparison to secular organizations, I stand by my assertion. Go ahead and toss out “common desire to worship God”, and I still don’t see a secular organization providing those tangible benefits that the LDS church does.
That’s great CIT. For you “it works wonderfully.” Please recognize that it doesn’t work wonderfully for everyone (and I think you do recognize that). For some (and I’m thinking of one regular poster here in particular) those secular organizations work wonderfully.
March 21, 2016 at 11:02 pm #310190Anonymous
GuestI think I see where you are coming from CIT. I agree that there are several elements in Mormonism that would be very difficult achieve in secular organizations. Heritage is one. As much as I might find fulfillment through the elks, or the rotary club, or the united way – it can be hard to pass this on to the next generation. For the most part, I think we have very good youth. What I worry about is that we might inadvertently drive away those that do not quite fit the mold. Uniformity can be great when you fit in, it can be hell when you don’t. Those youth that do well in the program tend to be good kids that do tend to stay out of trouble.
I have to cut my comments short but I am reminded of Hawkgrrrl’s recent post about people getting different things out of church. For some I believe the LDS church is better suited to meet their needs than others. I have also known people that would not do well in an LDS environment actually thrive and become leaders in a more evangelical church.
March 23, 2016 at 4:35 pm #310191Anonymous
GuestIs there “culture” in Provo?????? These “culture” celebrations started when the prophet would visit foreign locations, and the locals would put on a show to demonstrate the different cultural of the area. It was not associated with a Temple dedication. I attended one in 1977 in Santiago Chile when Pres Hinckley visited. Later this celebration was moved to being associated with temple dedications. But I wonder what culture is being demonstrated in Provo that the “visiting authorities” are not already familiar with? When the Star Valley temple is dedicated, will the cultural celebration include steer roping and cow chip tossing?
P.S. I have sat in an Priesthood meeting in Star Valley where the topic of conversation was who would provide the cow chips for the 24th of July celebration. They made light of the fact that brother so-and-so brought them last year, and they were too soft and made a mess of everything!
March 23, 2016 at 4:46 pm #310192Anonymous
GuestI think it’s all fine. Celebrate. But everyone has their own lens. Churchistrue, I completely understand why you would be happy to see the original staircases recreated, but it would be a bittersweet temple tour for old-time Cache Valley folks. Their beloved staircase was dismantled and given to the BYU theater department before the Logan Temple received the most drab and utilitarian of makeovers in the 70’s. But when we know better, we do better. It’s just hard to see the resources spent on some and not others.
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