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    Through my faith journey over the last decade, I have come to observe that one of the things that people have difficulty with in the LDS church is everything we are “expected” to do. There is so much. We have year supplies, we have journals and gardens. We have callings. We have assignments. We have meetings on top of meetings on top of even more meetings. Then after all of that we still have our families, and we tend to have big families too!!! Many times people get their priorities messed up and put all of the other sh-tuff in front of their families. It can be very difficult and challenging. We fell like we can never be good enough. We feel like we can’t do enough. For those of us that have been to the temple, and made temple covenants, it can DEFINITELY feel like we can never do enough (i.e. obedience, consecration…)

    I would like to comment a bit on that feeling that we have. The feeling of not being able to do enough. I have recently been reflecting back to my time as a missionary. I remember being completely dismayed when, during my first week in the MTC, I slept in 30 minutes one morning. I was devastated. I hadn’t even been out for a full week, and I was already breaking the rules. How could I ever tell anyone I had served an honorable mission when I couldn’t even get up on time?!?? 😳 My problem was that I had absolutely no concept of grace and mercy. I completely believed that it was my responsibility to be perfect, and in doing that I was completely denying that Jesus’ atonement was even necessary for me.

    Fast forward to about half way through my mission. I was having a conversation with another missionary about what we learn in the temple. I don’t think I am crossing any boundaries here, but there is a part in the endowment movie where the actor playing Satan looks at the camera and says something to the effect of, “If any of you fail to live up to the covenants you make here in the temple today, you will be under my power!” Now, when I first went to the temple, I completely believed this line. I completely believed that if I ever committed even the smallest fraction of any sin, I would lose all control and be subject to Satan’s control. I explained this to the other missionary I was speaking with, and he set me straight. He just flat out said, “Satan is lying”. I responded with, “But it’s in the temple movie, it can’t be a lie!” The other missionary responded back with, “ALL HE DOES IS LIE!!!”

    Even though I still can recall that conversation from ~15 years ago, I don’t think it completely set in to me until just recently. That statement that Satan makes in the endowment movie is a lie. We will not and cannot be perfect in this life. We will all fall short, and that is ok. Being able to fully understand and embrace this idea has been so liberating and freeing to me. It’s OK if I miss some church meeting here or there. It’s OK when my wife and I decide we are just going to take a whole month off from church. It’s OK for me to tell my bishop that I just can’t do that assignment, or that calling. I don’t need to feel bad for not gardening. I don’t need to feel bad for not keeping a journal every day of my life.

    I am doing the best I can in this life. I try to be nice to people. I try to love my neighbor (some neighbor’s are easier to love than others). I try to follow the golden rule. And I recognize that I am in control of my life. The church is not in control of my life. Satan is not in control of my life. I am in control of my life. And I choose to go to church. I choose to have a calling. I choose to put my wife and children before church or family. And doing that brings me quite a bit of happiness.

    #310892
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    azguy wrote:

    I am doing the best I can in this life. I try to be nice to people. I try to love my neighbor (some neighbor’s are easier to love than others). I try to follow the golden rule. And I recognize that I am in control of my life. The church is not in control of my life. Satan is not in control of my life. I am in control of my life. And I choose to go to church. I choose to have a calling. I choose to put my wife and children before church or family. And doing that brings me quite a bit of happiness.

    Isn’t it so liberating? My rebuilt faith is very similar. I totally agree with the first part of your post – there are so many expectations that it can be terribly debilitating. I think the reality is the only expectations are those in the quoted paragraph – essentially “be nice.” Thanks for sharing this.

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    I find it interesting that “he’s lying” was the first conclusion a group of peers came to. Not the “yeah, just make sure you don’t sin” answer I’d anticipate but a “he’s wrong.” They stuck with that interpretation even after they got a little push back.

    Thanks for sharing.

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    Thanks for your post.

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    Fast forward to about half way through my mission. I was having a conversation with another missionary about what we learn in the temple. I don’t think I am crossing any boundaries here, but there is a part in the endowment movie where the actor playing Satan looks at the camera and says something to the effect of, “If any of you fail to live up to the covenants you make here in the temple today, you will be under my power!” Now, when I first went to the temple, I completely believed this line. I completely believed that if I ever committed even the smallest fraction of any sin, I would lose all control and be subject to Satan’s control. I explained this to the other missionary I was speaking with, and he set me straight. He just flat out said, “Satan is lying”. I responded with, “But it’s in the temple movie, it can’t be a lie!” The other missionary responded back with, “ALL HE DOES IS LIE!!!”

    Imagine my distress when, the night before she goes through the temple, my husband tells our scrupulous daughter to take Satan literally. I brought the subject up specifically so I could prepare her for other ways to interpret that scene, and was dismayed when he finished out my sentence with that!

    And it’s weird because he himself is not a demanding, perfectionistic man.

    I think they’ll cut that scene down the road.

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    nibbler wrote:

    I find it interesting that “he’s lying” was the first conclusion a group of peers came to. Not the “yeah, just make sure you don’t sin” answer I’d anticipate but a “he’s wrong.” They stuck with that interpretation even after they got a little push back.

    Thanks for sharing.


    The missionary I was talking to was a convert. He was about 18 years old when he was baptized, then left on his mission one year later. It was pretty tough on him. One of his parents (I think it was his dad) was not a member. He had been “on fire” when he started his mission, but it really wore down on him. He had a lot of unique perspectives and was not as prone to following the standard Mormon social conventions on things.

    #310896
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    I MUCH prefer seeing the endowment through the lens of Lucifer being the father of lies. There are multiple moments when that changes the possible message significantly – and the changed message can alter a lot of perceptions about the endowment.

    #310897
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    So to carefully carry this a bit farther: If Satan is lying throughout the presentation, what are we to take from when he confirms to Eve that there is no other way? Was there another way or was he telling the truth then? If he was telling the truth then, how are we to know when he’s lying and when he’s telling the truth?

    Personal context: I don’t believe in an actual Satan/Lucifer (and I actually believe Lucifer in the OT is referring to someone else), but I do believe in evil. I also believe evil doers can lie or mix truth with lies.

    #310898
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    If we look at the wording literally (which I also don’t do fully), Eve says that Lucifer beguiled her (tricked, deceived). Based on fundamental Mormon doctrine, the only possible deceit is the idea that partaking of the fruit had to occur because there was no other way. Even if we grant that there was no other way, he could have been lying about the necessary timing and process – and/or that he needed to be the one to direct the partaking.

    There are varying implications of each of those possibilities, and I love the option of weighing multiple possibilities and taking whatever resonates with me from any or all of them.

    #310899
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    I remember having a similar conversation with my missionary companion. One of us was taking the position that Satan was so crafty, knowledgeable, and powerful that we cannot hope to overcome him on our own. The other was taking the position that Satan is such a helpless bug under the shoe of Jesus that together we will triumph easily. We were both right. It perspective shifts entirely depending on whether Jesus chooses to intercede and advocate on our behalf.

    Speaking in general Christian terms…sin places us under the dominion of Satan. We are all lost and our good works are as filthy rags. It was Jesus that condescended to pay the ultimate price to purchase us from our bondage to Satan and sin.

    Romans chapter 6

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    21Therefore what benefit were you then deriving from the things of which you are now ashamed? For the outcome of those things is death. 22But now having been freed from sin and enslaved to God, you derive your benefit, resulting in sanctification, and the outcome, eternal life. 23For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.

    We are now purchased servants to God our father. The atonement of Jesus continues to cover us and shelter us from the claims of Satan upon our soul.

    Brad Wilcox gave a great talk on Grace within the Mormon context of works. It can be found here: https://www.lds.org/ensign/2013/09/his-grace-is-sufficient?lang=eng

    #310900
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    DarkJedi wrote:

    So to carefully carry this a bit farther: If Satan is lying throughout the presentation, what are we to take from when he confirms to Eve that there is no other way? Was there another way or was he telling the truth then? If he was telling the truth then, how are we to know when he’s lying and when he’s telling the truth?

    Personal context: I don’t believe in an actual Satan/Lucifer (and I actually believe Lucifer in the OT is referring to someone else), but I do believe in evil. I also believe evil doers can lie or mix truth with lies.

    I think the most dangerous kinds of lies are the ones that contain a fair amount of truth. If you follow the normal LDS doctrine for the plan, the fall was necessary, and Satan was being truthful in that by partaking of the fruit, her eyes would be opened. But at the same time, he was deceiving and manipulating her in a way that would benefit him.

    #310901
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    Here’s some speculation that isn’t really my current opinion, this is just going off of what the Gospel teaches. What if everything Satan says in the video is instead a partial truth and a lie as well to twist the truth to benefit himself? Like when he says, ‘if any of you fail to live up to the covenants you make here in the temple today, you will be under my power’, it’s partially true going off what we’re taught because if we sin at all, we’re giving into Satan’s temptations, so at that moment we’re in his power in a sense. Like if you do what someone says, you could argue that you’re under that persons control for that short period. But at the same time, the church preaches a lot about how we have power over Satan because we are God’s children and also that we can come back from any sin because of the atonement. So if we say that his statement about being in his power as a partial truth and a partial lie to benefit him:

    Truth: Satan is starting to influence us if we sin and can be tricky and sneaky so he may at least feel he has power over us when we sin.

    Lie: we aren’t completely in his control like he makes it sound. We can always repent and go back to making our covenants, and we are always stronger than Satan if we choose to be.

    Benefit to him: if we believe we are in his power, we may give up on trying to go back to our covenants. He may try and convince us that we have no way back so we will stay with him.

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    DarkJedi wrote:

    I also believe evil doers can lie or mix truth with lies.

    That’s the only way most lies can work. If someone can only lie, it’s relatively easy to detect and circumvent. If they can tell the truth when it assists with their lies, then the deceit can remain effective.

    #310903
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    I don’t want to threadjack, but I think this is related. As I said, I don’t believe in a literal Satan, especially the kind that has some sort of supernatural power to influence our minds. Again, I do believe in evil and I do believe people do evil things. I do believe in the natural man and that the natural man has some tendencies to do some things that are “sinful.” In other words, I believe Satan gets much more credit than he deserves – much of our sin is from the urges/tendencies of the natural man without “Satanic” influence (magic). This does all relate to the temple from a certain point of view – the story does have to do with the fall of man (I wish it talked more about the redemption than it does), and the temple Lucifer could be symbolic of evil and the natural man. (Note that I do believe all of the endowment ceremony is symbolic.)

    #310904
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    NightSG wrote:

    DarkJedi wrote:

    I also believe evil doers can lie or mix truth with lies.

    That’s the only way most lies can work. If someone can only lie, it’s relatively easy to detect and circumvent. If they can tell the truth when it assists with their lies, then the deceit can remain effective.

    I agree with this. The reason I don’t read anti-Mormon stuff is because it bugs me how adept the stuff is at mixing truth with untruth. Knowing Mormon theology, it’s easy for me to pick out the lies, but that is admittedly far more difficult if one doesn’t know the truth – except when the lies are outlandish. I actually met a person on my mission, who did not appear to be insane, who was truly shocked when she discovered we were Mormons and we didn’t have horns. Really – it really happened.

    #310905
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    DarkJedi wrote:

    I actually met a person on my mission, who did not appear to be insane, who was truly shocked when she discovered we were Mormons and we didn’t have horns.

    I’m still trying to convince one that we’re allowed to dance. Apparently she thinks “Church singles dance” is a code phrase for some other activity. I even showed her pictures, and her response was “those don’t look like Mormons.”

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