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    The new Rogue One movie had me opining about moral quagmires, the mix of good and evil that makes up our actions. Here’s the link to the post (SPOILERS for Rogue One movie, though–sorry!): https://wheatandtares.org/2017/01/03/rogue-one-and-the-chad-hardy-defense-spoiler-alert/

    And here are the discussion questions I teed up over there:

    -Is it better for a rogue agent to be involved in something evil to undermine it rather than steering clear and being replaced by someone without good intentions?

    -Should Chad Hardy’s defense have been sufficient to avoid excommunication (assuming that he wanted to avoid it)? Is that a moral reason to be involved in something unsavory and possibly harmful?

    -Are we morally responsible for the outcomes of our actions or just our motives? What about when outcomes have mixed results (a death star with a flaw)? What about when our motives are a mix of good and evil choosing?

    -Can you feel the spirit in a bar? Why or why not? Is it more important to avoid contamination and temptations or to reach out to others where they are?

    -What’s the relationship between obedience and missionary success? Does adding rules and restrictions increase or reduce success?

    These seemed like good questions for all of us.

    #316554
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    Thanks for the daily brain bender.

    1- Claus von Stauffenberg comes to mind.

    2-A court over a calendar? Hmmmm.

    3-Hiroshima and Nagasaki

    4-Yes. If you can feel it in Walmart. You can feel it in a bar.

    5-Are baptisms really success. Tons of people get baptized but most don’t remain. Rules or not.

    #316555
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    My comment that I left on the blog post

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    The death star analogy reminds me of a real-life WWII parallel. It is my understanding that Jews were forced to build the V2 rockets that were used to bomb the UK. Their alternative was probably death. Funny that they did somewhat the same thing. They learned if the urinated on some of the metal parts just before they were assembled inside the V2 that by the time the rockets were launched the metal would rust causing problems with the navigation.

    I see no reason why you couldn’t feel the spirit in a bar, but I think it is more common for people to feel the effects of drinking spirits in a bar. We all go into restaurants where alcohol is being served. It comes more to where your mind is. I don’t think that you are going to be guided by the spirit if you are in a bar praying to be led by the spirit to find a 1 night stand without your spouse knowing. But that could be true no matter where you are. You could be doing that at BYU.

    I know of someone close on a mission with a tenancy for OCD. I plead for him to stop listening to those (even to his mission president) that pound “baptisms are a mathematical formula that comes from obedience to as many rules that you can make up.” I even tried to use the logic of “your obedient actions can’t override the free agency of someone else to decide to join the church” which he agreed must be right, then 2 weeks later he is saying, “I HAVE to be 100% obedient 100% of the time.” It has been an uphill battle. His mission president removes P-Day when a district does not have enough baptisms and even makes them travel part of the day to come to the mission office to be “taught” how to be more obedient and teach. But even with that I get letters from him on how depressed he is at times. Pisses me off.


    Yet another good blog post from Hawkgrrrl! Always thought provoking.

    #316556
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    1) Do the greatest amount of good for the greatest amount of people while also preserving the good of the minorities and individuals.

    2) In my mind, excommunication does not much care about moral reasoning. It is enough to be disloyal. They asked Bro. Hardy if he would stop if asked by the President. He refused. His reasoning is secondary.

    3) We are always morally responsible for the outcomes of our actions and we shall have to live with those outcomes.

    4) Yes, you can feel the spirit in a bar. I find it interesting how afraid people are of alcohol. I know someone (LDS) that if the neighbors are having a party that involves drinking is afraid that drunk people may wander over and kill the family as they sleep. It does not seem to work that way for the people that I know that do drink. Their reaction time is impaired. Their inhibitions are lowered. They do not (as a general rule) start acting as though they have been possessed by demons. I am sure that this fear is a combination of individual upbringing and prevailing LDS attitudes about alcohol.

    5) Obedience and baptism success are not correlated. However, there is a correlation between mission obedience and risk of missionary injury. There is a correlation between mission obedience and the perception that the MP is doing a good job (baptisms or no). I do feel for MP’s that are left to oversee several hundred young men (and a handful of young women) in far flung locations without many of the normal motivational tools. Missionaries do not get paid and just about the only punishment that you can hold over a missionary’s head is to send him home dishonorably. Institutionalized guilt is one of the few tools left to the MP who hopes to maintain order.

    #316557
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    I haven’t seen Rogue One but I stayed in a Holiday Inn Express about 8 years ago.

    Chad Hardy’s Disciplinary Council

    I figure one contributing factor that led towards his excommunication was to “safeguard the integrity of the church.” I wonder if there’s a blurred line somewhere, where the church’s image is more negatively affected by the excommunication than it is by the original offense. What’s the worse that happens if they don’t excommunicate him, just ignore him? Members won’t know that putting out nudie calendars is wrong? But yeah, thank goodness for leaders making that judgment call for me. Now I know.

    -Is it better for a rogue agent to be involved in something evil to undermine it rather than steering clear and being replaced by someone without good intentions?

    Is that semi-related to the reasoning behind why some people choose to stay engaged with the church after a disillusionment? To mitigate some of the fallout that can occur when people say or do things at church? To be there to provide an alternate voice when a priest tells a laurel that polygamy is the celestial order? To be the bishop that only holds a disciplinary council for a same sex couple that got married to check off the box but has no intention of excommunicating them?

    -Should Chad Hardy’s defense have been sufficient to avoid excommunication (assuming that he wanted to avoid it)? Is that a moral reason to be involved in something unsavory and possibly harmful?

    Probably not. Their club. Their rules. Is it moral? I think that’s more for him to decide for himself.

    This is a thread jack but BYU revoked his diploma, despite completing all the academic requirements. I don’t think either party can cite a moral high ground.

    -Are we morally responsible for the outcomes of our actions or just our motives? What about when outcomes have mixed results (a death star with a flaw)? What about when our motives are a mix of good and evil choosing?

    I have trouble with “good” and “evil.” I find them to be extremely subjective. The devil (evil?) is in the details.

    The Spirit in a Bar

    -Can you feel the spirit in a bar? Why or why not? Is it more important to avoid contamination and temptations or to reach out to others where they are?

    Here I go being judgmental again but I think whether or not you believe you can feel the spirit in a bar has more to do with the person than the bar. Some people can’t feel the spirit in a bar, they won’t allow themselves to feel it there. I’m not good or even average at this but when I think of the peace that Jesus offers I don’t think it means that Jesus will remove the conditions that afflict us, the conditions that afflict us may continue but I think the peace Jesus offers is the ability to feel at peace despite our environment. The whole heaven isn’t a place, it’s a state of mind sort of thing.

    Alternatively, if you can’t feel the spirit in a bar because it’s “evil” then I doubt there’s a suitable place on this planet where you can feel the spirit. We’re living on a fallen world. The world is a bar.

    All that said, the question was “can you feel the spirit in a bar?” not “is it easy to feel the spirit in a bar?” Our environment does have an effect, for the non-Zen masters among us.

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    -What’s the relationship between obedience and missionary success? Does adding rules and restrictions increase or reduce success?

    As a 21 year old:

    Greater obedience brings blessings. The lord is bound when I do what he says. The lord is telling me to obey these rules. If I obey I’ll have success. That attitude fueled my scrupulosity, it was extremely stressful. I was depressed and filled with self doubt my entire mission.

    Over two decades later:

    If I could go back and do it again I’d focus less on the rules and more on the experience itself. I’d be much happier. That’s not to say that I’d go off and break all the rules, all I’m saying is that the rules would not be the focus. I’d also divorce myself from the goals, quotas, and expectations. They suck the joy out of the experience. Whether or not you hit the numbers shouldn’t determine your happiness in any way, shape, or from. That’s slightly off topic but the mission goals were couched in obedience. The lord expects you to hit these numbers… if you have faith and are obedient.

    So yeah, it’s the only motivational club leaders have to wield but I don’t think they understand the harm that this does to some people.

    I would like to question what makes a mission a success. Overall I think happy missionaries experience more success and an unhealthy fixation on rules and their hedges tend to make people less happy.

    #316559
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    nibbler wrote:

    -What’s the relationship between obedience and missionary success? Does adding rules and restrictions increase or reduce success?

    If I could go back and do it again I’d focus less on the rules and more on the experience itself. I’d be much happier. That’s not to say that I’d go off and break all the rules, all I’m saying is that the rules would not be the focus.


    Totally agree. I actually find nothing wrong with the rules, but something very wrong with the concept that obedience to rules makes great missionaries. To me, if you take on the mission commitment, then there is a lifestyle that goes with it and that lifestyle is non-negotiable. You don’t become a Franciscan Friar without the robe/rope/sandals, you don’t become a nun without the habit or a priest without celibacy. You can’t become an LDS missionary (properly) without living the lifestyle. Too often these rules are treated as constraints instead of just the way it is. Can you imagine a friar saying, “I can’t to it anymore, I’m wearing my jersey today instead of this big robe.”

    If I were an MP, I’d just tell the missionaries, “Look, live the rules or go home; your choice. Now, if you want to stay, let’s talk about how to be a great missionary.”

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    Quote:

    -Is it better for a rogue agent to be involved in something evil to undermine it rather than steering clear and being replaced by someone without good intentions?

    -Should Chad Hardy’s defense have been sufficient to avoid excommunication (assuming that he wanted to avoid it)? Is that a moral reason to be involved in something unsavory and possibly harmful?

    -Are we morally responsible for the outcomes of our actions or just our motives? What about when outcomes have mixed results (a death star with a flaw)? What about when our motives are a mix of good and evil choosing?

    Life is complex and sometimes neat answers are not readily available. The questions above remind me of this issue:

    http://archive.boston.com/business/articles/2010/09/08/abstinent_mormon_farmers_grow_barley_for_beer/

    Here’s an interesting discussion that follows up on that: https://jesusinidahofalls.com/2010/10/01/barley-beer-in-lds-southeastern-idaho/ (Check out the comments)

    Actually, my own father grew barley for a time. As a child, I never knew what it was used for but I have to assume that at least some of it was destined for breweries. (I do recall wondering. When my dad grew wheat, he would pull off some heads of grain and show me how to rub out the kernels and eat them….that doesn’t work for barley.) My guess is that if I pressed my father about this issue (I never have and am not inclined to do it now) he would neatly compartmentalize his behavior (while the author of the letter in the blog post linked above does compartmentalize a little but he does try to engage in the moral quandary a bit).

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    -Can you feel the spirit in a bar? Why or why not? Is it more important to avoid contamination and temptations or to reach out to others where they are?

    I think you can but it does depend on what you went to the bar for in the first place. “Keeping unspotted from the world” is a big deal for Mormons. In my predominantly Mormon part of the country, I know that in testimony meeting MANY people mention some variation on that statement. I remember a high councilman in a past stake saying, “If we were doing our job as members of the Church, our meetings would smell very differently.” I think referencing the fact that those that smoke or drink or imbibe coffee should be far more comfortable attending than they are. My wife had an aunt who had developed an unfortunately smoking habit. She actually did desire to attend but knew that she smelled of smoke and was generally too embarrassed to go. This was despite having a good and kind bishop who constantly encouraged her to attend regardless.

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    What’s the relationship between obedience and missionary success? Does adding rules and restrictions increase or reduce success?

    That relationship is unclear in my mind. I think too much stress on obedience and imposing penalties on missionaries who disobey does create a difficult atmosphere to work in. However, these are men and women in their late teens and early twenties….you gotta have some rules. On my mission, I don’t recall there being huge amounts of stress put on obedience. It was just kind of assumed that you would obey the rules and if you didn’t, someone would call you on it, but generally it was done fairly kindly. This is speaking as an individual who spent his entire mission feeling pretty anxious about it. So personally, I never saw a strong connection, probably because we didn’t have strong examples of either obedience or extreme disobedience (for the most part.)

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