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    Had an interesting lesson on Happiness and Joy in High Priest Group today.

    I had to hold my tongue in one place. I have been reading about happiness a lot lately, and watching Ted Talks and Harvard Research presentations on the topic. I learned the following:

    Money makes you happy if you are in poverty and then get up to $40- $70 thousand per year. It seems that relieving the stress of poverty does a lot to boost happiness. Beyond that, increases in income or money does not produce dramatic changes in happiness, although it makes you a little bit happier. However, people who win the lottery two years later are about as happy as paraplegics. That was an interesting finding.

    Marriage — compared to being single, you get a spike in happiness leading up to marriage, and in the honeymoon period. Then it falls dramatically to being a bit higher than when you are single. But only if the marriage is good. Divorce produces massive happiness if the relationship is bad.

    Children — they cause a spike in happiness the first two years, and then happiness regarding children falls to below the level childless couples face.

    In the lesson — I had to bite my tongue on the children thing. There is no way that would have flown. It appeared to be really credible research, conducted by harvard researchers. And it made sense. I asked my wife when she was most happy and joyful, and she mentioned during the first couple years our children were born, when they were cute, naive, spoke funny, and did funny things. Anecdotal, but true.

    I did mention the divorce thing — but that it applied only to people in bad marriages, and that there is deviation and variation. The teacher put a big disclaimer on my statement after that one. I got too close to saying something bad about marriage.

    Anyway, we are a church that claims to have the truth, but I find I have to bite my tongue a lot to make sure the truth revealed from science and research doesn’t step on our culture, which for me, doesn’t always teach us things based on truth. I find it interesting that we are an organization that claims to have the truth. But we can’t say it if science’s version of truth conflicts with the church version, even when science seems to have a far more credible set of truths.

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    In those examples it sounds like people are happy when they get something they’ve been wanting but once they obtain that something they find that those feelings of happiness are fleeting. Once we get something we train our thoughts on the next thing we want. There’s the quote (and many variants):

    Fredrick Koeing wrote:

    We tend to forget that happiness doesn’t come as a result of getting something we don’t have, but rather of recognizing and appreciating what we do have.

    I get the feeling that people created the conflict between science and religion when scientific beliefs started to challenge religious belief but it doesn’t always have to work that way. There are many quotes from church leaders that indicate that scientific advancement is just another way god reveals truth.

    Brigham Young, Journal of Discourses, vol. 13, pg. 302 wrote:

    It is hard to get the people to believe that God is a scientific character, that He lives by science or strict law, that by this He is, and by law he was made what He is; and will remain to all eternity because of His faithful adherence to law. It is a most difficult thing to make the people believe that every art and science and all wisdom comes from Him, and that He is their Author.

    Brigham Young, Journal of Discourses, vol. 17, pg. 51 wrote:

    The idea that the religion of Christ is one thing, and science is another, is a mistaken idea, for there is no true religion without true science, and consequently there is no true science without true religion.

    David O. McKay, A Message for LDS College Youth, Oct. 10, 1952 wrote:

    But science, dominated by the spirit of religion is the key to progress and the hope of the future. For example, evolution’s beautiful theory of the creation of the world offers many perplexing problems to the inquiring mind. Inevitably, a teacher who denies divine agency in creation, who insists there is no intelligent purpose in it, will infest the student with the thought that all may be chance. I say, that no youth should be so led without a counter balancing though. Even the skeptic teacher should be fair enough to see that even Charles Darwin, when he faced this great question of annihilation, that the creation is dominated only by chance wrote: “It is an intolerable thought than man and all other sentient beings are doomed to complete annihilation after such long, continued slow progress.” And another good authority, Raymond West, said, “Why this vast [expenditure] of time and pain and blood?” Why should man come so far if he’s destined to go no farther? A creature that travels such distances and fought such battles and won such victories deserves what we are compelled to say, “To conquer death and rob the grave of its victory.”

    It sounds like he preached a balance, or harmony between science and spirit.

    There are many, many other quotes where church leaders (people with names that make others actually think there’s some merit to what they say ;) ) talk about the important role of science in circumscribing all truth into a great whole.

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    Yet we are quick to poo poo sources that are not church approved, to not rely on the arm of flesh, to say that when men are learned they think they are wise, and that all the answers to all our problems are in the scriptures and words of the prophets. If you draw on secular sources in your church lessons, you are taking a chance, that is for sure if people think you are deviating too much from the party line.

    Nibbler, those quotes do seem to suggest gospel and scientific truths complement each other, but how would the church react if it came out that having children actually shortens your life, and decreases your happiness? And was replicated across many different studies? There is no way they would accept that at church.

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    nibbler wrote:

    There are many quotes from church leaders that indicate that scientific advancement is just another way god reveals truth.

    But they’re likely talking about the hard sciences, not the social sciences. Soft sciences are where things get real fuzzy because we’re dealing with hypothetical constructs like “happiness” and we’re assuming that our measure of happiness is actually measuring true “happiness.” But then, how do we define happiness in the first place? Can humans even agree upon a definition? I read something recently explaining that the fact that Scandinavia looks like the happiest part of the world in research may be because they interpret the questions in the survey differently from other cultures, and because of their metacognition surrounding the social construct of happiness.

    We also may want to take a more longitudinal perspective when it comes to having children. If you have children, maybe you’re less happy than someone who doesn’t at age 38 or 45, but what if they perform the same survey on people who are within 5-10 years of the end of life? These people have family who are comparatively young whom they may live after becoming a widow/widower, or family who comes to visit them. They have grandkids, thus potentially reaping that initial increase in happiness that parents of young kids experience, repeatedly with each additional grandkid. So possibly, on average, we recoup some of the lost happiness from middle adulthood in later adulthood and come out even? Also, possibly not. But either way, until someone does that research, we don’t know. I feel like Church-inspired “truth” and “truth” from science are about equal in terms of actual validity. Science makes truth claims, forgetting that the entire discipline is based on a set of underlying assumptions that cannot be verified (just like religion), only to have those claims smashed to smithereens by subsequent science.

    It would be nice if the lesson instructor would say, “Oh, yeah, so I guess the lesson manual and the social science research are somewhat contradictory.” I might say that, but I’m guessing a lot of people wouldn’t. They wouldn’t know what to say and would feel obligated to defend the church because they’re at church. Rough, regardless. I’m with you, science that contradicts the manual should not be taboo. Science that compliments the CES material is fine, of course, haha.

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