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    https://www.deseretnews.com/article/900018074/mormons-to-drop-scouting-as-part-of-new-global-initiative.html” class=”bbcode_url”>https://www.deseretnews.com/article/900018074/mormons-to-drop-scouting-as-part-of-new-global-initiative.html

    I like Scouting, two of my sons are Eagles. But the writing has been on the wall a long time and I’m all in favor of this. If we really are a global church we need to start looking and acting like a global church. I have long said the only reason we were still in Scouts was because of TSM’s love of and long relationship with the organization. I think the mourning period has been appropriate, and coupled with all the other reasons it’s time. My hope is that the replacement program is appropriate for our young people wherever they are and that it’s not just more indoctrination. More kudos and a thanks to RMN.

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    DarkJedi wrote:


    My hope is that the replacement program is appropriate for our young people wherever they are and that it’s not just more indoctrination.

    My hope is that this isn’t used as an excuse to slash funding for youth. As I understand it, scouting cost the church money and inflated the budgets for the YM program. There are several directions they could take. Bank the savings or reinvest in the youth.

    In the past we’ve talked about the imbalance in funding between the YM and YW programs. I think scouting had a lot to do with that. I sincerely hope that they fund both programs equally, or just combine the programs, fund it as one entity, and make all the activities that cost money open to all youth. Rather than send the funds that would have gone towards scouting to the coffers, reinvest that money in the youth.

    The indoctrination meetings are cheap. They are also boring. Please, please, please don’t make the church as anemic for the youth as it is for the adults.

    #328958
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    I sure hope RMN comes up with a solid replacement. How else am I supposed to know how great my kids are? How will I know when they’re responsible enough to drive?

    I hope they combine the YM and YW more. I remember growing up about once a month they’d have a combined mutual activity that was always a ton of fun. On the other days, it was all merit badges. I did enjoy the camp outs, and the diversity of practical subjects. There are a lot of fundamental life skills scouting taught, that don’t get covered in school.

    It’d also be great if they taught some of the other fundamental life skills, that really don’t get covered anywhere else but are very important. How to date, how to find a lifelong partner, how to break up with someone, how to communicate effectively, how to deal with disappointment, how to not take life so seriously… If the Church were perfect, I think all of these lessons would be covered in wonderful detail. But instead all we hear in Church is “go to Church”, “read your scriptures”, “pray”, which lets face it, is ALL about where to look for answers, and not at all about the answers themselves. We need better training!

    #328959
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    I agree Nibbler, and that’s part of my concern. Scouting is expensive and as you note YM budgets were always way more than YW budgets because of Scouting. I’m actually fine with the church as a whole keeping all the money spent on Scout registration in the vault because that doesn’t affect local units directly anyway and it was money we never saw. On the other hand, if they also gave that money to local units we would be spending much more on youth as a whole than we had in the past. It would be grossly unfair now (in 2020) if the spending on YM was any different than the spending on YW at the local level.

    I’d also hope to see many more “joint” activities, perhaps even a merging of YM/YW into one program. There were some major changes to YW camp this year (such as elimination of the camping certification stuff). I really hope YW camp doesn’t go away (even though it is indoctrinating), but will there now (2020) also be YM camp? It’ll be interesting to see how this pans out.

    #328960
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    Dande, I think they’ll build on what’s already there and still being implemented (rather poorly from my point of view).

    https://www.lds.org/youth/ymactivities?lang=eng” class=”bbcode_url”>https://www.lds.org/youth/ymactivities?lang=eng

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    DarkJedi wrote:


    Dande, I think they’ll build on what’s already there and still being implemented (rather poorly from my point of view).

    Ugh, I hated the “Duty to God” award. It felt like a “poor-man’s” Eagle.

    #328962
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    dande48 wrote:


    DarkJedi wrote:


    Dande, I think they’ll build on what’s already there and still being implemented (rather poorly from my point of view).

    Ugh, I hated the “Duty to God” award. It felt like a “poor-man’s” Eagle.

    I kind of wonder what will become of that (Duty to God) and the YW award as well. Again, it will be interesting to see. I was talking with a (not very observant or connected) friend of mine this morning who thought the church would just come up with a Scout like program. I disagreed, pointing out the activity guidelines referenced in my earlier post and noting that part of the opposition to something like that is the lack of the recognized Eagle award. Other churches have had Scout like programs for years. And it comes back to Scouting not working everywhere or for every boy, which has always been a problem in the church.

    #328963
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    DarkJedi wrote:


    Other churches have had Scout like programs for years. And it comes back to Scouting not working everywhere or for every boy, which has always been a problem in the church.

    I belonged to a Methodist BS troop. There was zero expectation that every boy of age in the Methodist church participate in the troop they sponsored. In fact the association was pretty loose. The Methodist church was just in a sponsor role. I’m pretty sure the troop leaders weren’t even members of the Methodist church.

    But that’s our church for you. Programs aren’t really seen as there for people that are interested, there’s a cultural expectation that everyone participate in our programs. As such it probably is best that the church not sponsor a troop, since we tend to create those sorts of expectations.

    I’ll also say that it’s funny to see the celebrations of the news on social media. I can’t help but wonder – if that’s the way many felt about the scouting program in the church, why did they need HQ’s permission to stop participating? That obligation we feel to participate in all programs.

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    dande48 wrote:


    How to date, how to find a lifelong partner, how to break up with someone, how to communicate effectively, how to deal with disappointment, how to not take life so seriously…

    Judging from this partial list from the Teachers and Priests link DJ provided – I would say that Dande may get his wish.

    •Dating panel

    •Group date ideas

    •Skills we can use to serve

    •Getting to know the adults

    •Visit and serve the elderly

    •Getting to know each other

    •Welcome to the neighborhood

    •Panel discussion about family relationships

    •Seven days of service

    •Stake dance

    •Friends of other faiths

    •Talent show

    •Service scavenger hunt

    •The art of conversation

    #328965
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    The responses from members that really bother me in this regard is 1) RMN had a revelation to make this change and that 2) the church is taking a moral stand.

    This says more about the narratives of the individuals making those statements that it does about the change itself but it still bothers me.

    #328966
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    Roy wrote:


    The responses from members that really bother me in this regard is 1) RMN had a revelation to make this change and that 2) the church is taking a moral stand.

    I don’t buy it’s a revelation one teensy weensy bit. But isn’t it a moral stand? It might not be morals we agree with, but the (B)SA is running pretty strongly against the policies of the Church. The main issue the Church has with including girls, is that having teenage boys and teenage girls on the same overnight campouts, could lead to teenage “snuggle bunnies”. I honestly think that’s the whole of it. With allowing gay scout leaders (not saying I agree), homosexual practice does run contrary to what the Church deems as commandments, which can also encourage same-sex “snuggle bunnies”. The Church wants to avoid teenage “snuggle bunnies” at all costs.

    I had a good friend of mine who was raped by an LDS appointed scout leader on a campout. There are dangers from being in the middle of the woods, late at night. Sadly, most of them are human.

    #328967
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    I will miss many parts of Boy Scouts, others not so much. I do think camping, hiking, being away from mom and dad, and learning outdoorsy stuff is important for youth. I hope physical activity and outdoors plays a non-trivial role in the new programs – both for boys and girls. Heaven knows we need less screen time. The boys were almost forced to do monthly campouts and frankly I think it would be helpful for girls to do the same.

    I must get this off my chest – I’m annoyed by the many proclamations of loyalty to the BSA over the last few years. We had the General YM president visit our stake last year and he said our relationship with BSA is strong and we’re not going anywhere. I very much felt church HQ wasn’t being transparent or consistent regarding boy scouts.

    That being said, I’m thrilled that there may be more equality between YM and YW. Two thumbs up for that.

    #328968
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    I’m following this topic with interest. I’m ambivalent with scouts. My mother earned my eagle for me, yet my oldest son earned his recently on his own. This same son attended an international jamboree a few years ago. Our biggest revelation is that the scouting program internationally was co-ed. Boys and girls together in troops. There was a lot of international relationship building by our boys on the trip, along with some scouting. :shifty: 😆

    I echo others concerns that this will turn more into an evangelical program with less focus on practical skills and having fun. They HAVE needed to fix the disparity of types of activities between YW/YM. We’ll see how they do.

    #328969
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    dande48 wrote:


    But isn’t it a moral stand?

    For one, the gentleman that told me that the church needed to take a moral stand on the issue also told me that things started to go downhill for him as a scoutmaster when the church hierarchy told him to start accepting non-members into his scout troop. I found it ironic that this man had very strong convictions about morals but apparently had no compunctions about excluding non-church members.

    However, I do not think that any “moral stand” factored vey heavily into the church’s decision.

    The boy scouts allows the chartering organization to make determinations on Gay leaders and gender inclusion. Therefore, if the church continued with BSA then it could continue to run things business as usual. There would be no co-ed campouts in LDS troops.

    I do believe that the reasons for the parting of ways are business reasons. This is actually basically what has been said by the church in the official statement – that the church needs a program that will adapt to member needs in other countries & that will be less expensive.

    It is my opinion that most of the decisions made in the church are business decisions.

    #328970
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    I am hopeful for the new program, and saddened that the association with scouting is ending.

    I hope the new program is what I’ve seen so far, that youth will have more control of what the program entails and what they do.

    I see many negatives in separating from the scouts. Service opportunities, the organization, and recognition, to name a few. Not that the new program won’t have some of these, but with scouts now accepting girls, technically it could be part of the new program for the combined youth.

    But I digress, the partnership is ending. My girls are grown, and I only have 1 boy left in scouting.

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