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March 20, 2020 at 10:02 pm #212867
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GuestYesterday, after I got off line, I had to sit and think for a while. I felt that a man had just tried to impose his beliefs on me, leaving me a bit upset and feeling defensive. Exactly why is it that re engaging with the LDS seems like a good idea? To be sure, a great deal of the Mormon story feels plausible to me, but some administer it wrongly, and attempt to exercise unrighteous dominion on those who they view as beneath them. So, to clarify, my screen name, “Khadijah” is simply a carry over from my Muslim days. Hate to have to say this, I ‘look’ completely Scandinavian white in race and am actually half Native American (Likely Navajo or Apache), and was not raised on the Res. Almost all of what I know about my heritage, I’ve learned in the last few years. The rest is “white man’s” culture.
I’ve devoted my life since my late 20s to the study of Theological Archeology. A lot of my study has been of pre-Judaistic beliefs. So, my opinion of LDS beliefs is often not cemented, but I feel it is arguably plausible. For example, my opinion on the journey of the Nephites to the New World is not dogmatic, but it seems likely they did travel along what we now call the Arabian Peninsula and stopped in Oman. It seems that they either relied on the currents or were propelled by God. Sadly, Genetic evidence about them in the Americas was mostly overwritten by the Spanish in the early 16th century invasions.
To survive in the LDS Church, it seems clear that focus on the Sacrament is vital. I won’t marry an LDS man because too many have unfounded fantasies about their domination over women. The good ones are either far too young for me, or are taken, and at this point I will not participate in Polygamy. The idea that one must be part of that is pure smoke and mirrors.
March 20, 2020 at 11:24 pm #339097Anonymous
GuestI believe that personal boundaries are always helpful. In thinking about theological boundaries, I believe it is helpful to establish some broad strokes about what I personally believe. It can be tempting to start with what we do not believe in. I believe it to be more helpful to work on affirmative theological beliefs. These boundaries will be tested by others. We live in communities where it is assumed that we have homogenous beliefs. I generally find it wise to smile and deflect
Khadijah wrote:
I’ve devoted my life since my late 20s to the study of Theological Archeology. A lot of my study has been of pre-Judaistic beliefs.
This subject sounds fascinating. I can’t wait to learn more about it. That topic probably deserves a dedicated post.Khadijah wrote:
To survive in the LDS Church, it seems clear that focus on the Sacrament is vital.
I would say that there are many different strategies and coping mechanisms that might help non-traditional LDS believers to survive in the LDS church. The success of these strategies can vary for individuals depending on many factors. We, here at StayLDS, share some strategies that might have worked for us personally but we understand that they may not be universally applicable. Also – every contributor here can have a different spectrum of strategies. Therefore, having personal theological boundaries applies even here amongst the friendly folk of StayLDS.
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