On a hopefully more helpful note, I want to say that it really depends on the region and person. People really are complex. With women and men using different parts of their brain to make decisions or thinking about things making even more complex(especially when you get to compartmentalize and using the right or left parts of the brain to think about the same things). the best advise I can give is that I think best friends make the best girlfriends and wifes. Get to know them, become good friends with them and by that time you will know more about where they stand and they will be more open to tell you where they stand. Some women don’t go for the best friends approach, at times I joke that I pretty much met all those lol. But at least to me if a person doesn’t want to be close or best friends while dating. Well then they aren’t for me at least. In the mean time getting to know them as friends you learn where they stand and can open up more to them or find out if it isn’t a good idea. Since you are just friends at the time their shouldn’t be any pressure. I hope it helps for what ever it’s worth. I wish you well.
