I just flat out disagree with the idea of excommunication because it doesn’t help anybody. I believe the church is now and always has been wrong to excommunicate people . Christ never kicked anybody out except in the temple, it is not his way.
I agree that excommunication or “withdrawal of membership” is generally not helpful and does not help people “repent.” And I agree that it’s not God’s way. I believe God’s love, grace, and mercy are perfectly unconditional.