I guess what it boils down to – is do you want to be there and do you know why?
Right now, I am not even sure that I am a Christian, but I want to be there at church because these people are good people for me and my family to be around and it makes my home life easier. I probably won at leadership roulette (for now) – but no one gets to decide for me if/when I am leaving as long as I do my part to belong to the community and talk through the terms. There are those who would consider this a “lack of faith” (which is accurate), but their perception is not my problem (though my projection that influences their perception is my problem).