I’ve learned that I don’t have to take anything from anyone anymore…and I’m no longer mad about it either. 
I there’s some of that too — partly, you don’t have to take it from yourself when you don’t do every single thing mandated by local leaders with a sudden idea.
And also, yes, I think the sacrifices become hard to bear sometimes, and this can lead to resentment. So, shaking the belief that you have to do everything you’re asked all the time would bring a measure of peace to some. I’m starting to feel that way now about a few issues bothering me about the Church, and that HAVE bothered me for years.