Just an FYI, I suppose. I thought the following was a bit too graphic for a PG rated board, deleted it, and notified him in a PM that I had done so and why:
Oral sex is a part of our routine, the unique thing she had done with him is swallow and she was told by a girlfriend that that is how it is to be done. I never wanted that nor cared, but it really bothered me that she had no problem doing something for someone else that grossed her out with me.
I don’t think this edit seriously impacts the gist of that part of the post.