I just wanted to join in the welcome others have extended, and thought one point you made in your intro was quite interesting:
I was once told, “Well, if you are unable to accept polygamy in the next life than you will be unable to build up your own kingdom as fast as the rest of us”
Whoever told you that must be a real piece of work. Apologies if it was a close family member or friend. I always assumed that since time is measured unto man alone with no concept of time in the eternities, I don’t know why anyone would be in a rush to build up their kingdoms first. It makes it sound like it’s some sort of race or contest.