Ray wrote
She was a remarkable woman – seriously the most gentle person I have met in my life. I never heard her raise her voice in anger or frustration, and everyone I know says the same thing. She is the only person I know who is mentioned in someone else’s Patriarchal Blessing by name, where the other person is told to listen to her always, since she will never lead that person astray.
Wow. This words hit a nerve in me. Thank you.