I just came across this talk from Russell Hancock of the Menlo Park stake presidency:
http://geoffsn.blogspot.com/2012/08/russell-hancock-on-testimony-and-church.html?m=1
I love how he stresses the importance of probing — asking questions, seeking answers, testing what we’ve been told. If I had been given this concept of faithful living my faith crisis would have looked much different.
The fact that this teaching does exist in the church has been a huge tool for me to use in my faith reconstruction, to me it is essential and I am thrilled to find it in teachings wherever I can.