After much research and speculation and prayer I have come to the conclusion that we are all at different levels in our beliefs and on our journey back home to our Heavenly Father . I think we should all help those who are struggling with issues they have with the church as I know from expierience it is difficult to go through that . If you know of someone struggling with issues just let them know they are not alone in their journey . I know for me when I had a faith crisis that was the single most important thing for me just to know I had support and no matter what I believed I still had friends in the church. No need to preach or point out particular ideas just let them figure it out unless they ask for help . Pray for them because as I stated before it is a very difficult journey and do not think that any one of us can never have a crisis of faith because it happens!!!! the church has already lost to many members (good people) over the past few years so make it a mission to help each other and Stay LDS !!! Thanks.
I agree jgaskill. I think one of the biggest problems in wards is the assumption that we are all identical ginger bread men and women, that we all believe the same and all have the same testimonies. Knowing that I was not alone and that I was welcome was also a major factor for me.